Ok, so i've been dating this girl for two weeks now and whenever i go out, i get this impression i should make a move. You know, kind of like a spidey-sense for men.
Anwyays, our last date (3rd one), we went to THE BLOCk to go shoot some pool at LUCKY STRIKE and while we were walking back to our car, i got this impression i should try to hold her or her hand.
Well, afterwards, to be honest, i wanted to go home cause i was tired, but she wanted to go for milkshakes, so we did that, at 2a.m.
I'm not sure if she really was cold or not, but after drinking milkshakes, she said, "i'm cold.." and i'm like..
Well, i was too big of a wuss to do anything at Denny's, so while driving home, i was super quiet because I was telling myself what to say to her so we could hold hands...
She is usually the quiet one, but since i was soo quiet on our way home, she actually tried to initiate a conversation.
I told myself if i didn't make a move this time, then i may be put into the FRIENDS category forever and shoot, holding hands should be the easiest thing.. but for me it was hard.
This is what i said to her while we were in the car.
"Janet... (short pause cause my mind blanked).. Umm, i'm gonna try something now, but if you don't like it, let me know." ~ ME
"Uh ok..." ~ Her
"Stick out your left hand." ~ ME
So she does it and i take it... Initially, i'm not sure if she got freaked out and tried to pull away, but she kept it there... But i think i did feel resisitance or could it be because our hands were in an uncomfortable levitating position?
Argh.. Anwyays, after i did that, she got super quiet. She is a really shy girl, but even after that, she got more quiet and looked outside the window only.. never twoards me.
I don't regret making this move because I'd rather know than blow more $$$ on her. For 3 dates, she cost me $310
Shoot, with $310, i could get myself more Pc3200 ram + creative muvo 4gb, which i really need...
And since i'm afraid of what's gonna happen next, i decided i'm not gonna call her anymore unless she calls me. Well, i'll give it a week b4 i call her.
*sigh* Love, it's a pain.