YAGT (The Ramblings of An Insane Lunatic On Crack and Other Unmentionable Drugs Too)

xBopx

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I had given up hope on ever finding someone to love...and then I met Katie. Now, I can't help but feel the emotion, and I want to let this emotion escape me. I want to share my love with her, but alas, we don't really know eachother that well. what I do know is that her eyes penetrate to the depths of my soul, her smile is a beacon in the fog of my life, and her words strike a chord with the fabric of my being. Cliches aside, I want to get to know her better.

Lately, I've felt like I have no sense of humour. I can laugh at other things, but I just haven't been making jokes - I haven't been able to come up with them. Girls expect a sense of humour. What should I do?

Her warmth has brought me out of the shadow of loneliness and sparked my soul with a fire that consumes my thoughts, perhaps that fire will give me a sense of humour.

I don't want to be obsessed. I don't think that I am.

Love is a verb.

I sit next to her in my American Government class. We talk before class starts...but when it ends I never know what to say. Usually the only thing to say is goodbye, and thats the last thing I want to do.

I had lost hope.

She's not going to be here this summer.

She is always cheerful. She is outgoing, friendly and I can sense the goodness of her being.

The orange glow of embers in the fireplace

My thoughts are unrefined.

Between stimulus and response is choice.
 

Zim Hosein

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Bop, take a chance and ask her out; if not, you'll never know the answer to "if she's the one/flavor of the month," Bop I hope this helps, and good luck :)
 

rgwalt

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First, get some sleep.

Second, ask her out.

Be sure and get some sleep first. You are sounding like Moonbeam.

Ryan
 

Ns1

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pull down your pants and say "well? it aint gonna suck itself"
 

djheater

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Be thankful that life isn't actually as melodramatic as you seem to think, and the mixed metaphor's made me chuckle.

the great panoply of the rest of your life still stretches before you. you have a great deal more time to spend, will you do so regretting inaction?
 

xBopx

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Strategy. Tactics. ---> goals. ---> whats the next step?

We have a test on friday...I could see if she wants to study with me.

Studying isn't really what I want to do.

I think I want to develop a strong relationship and let it naturally turn into what it may. The question is, how do I expand the domain of our friendship? I could start by walking with her towards her next class. And then by studying with her. Then maybe taking her somewhere, perhaps to a movie or a nature area, or a concert with a group of friends, and then finally taking her somewhere by ourselves.

Is that a reasonable progression?
 

Shockwave

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Ice cream. Ice cream is a mans savior when dealing with women (Unless the lactose intolerant)
Just ask if she wants to go grab some ice cream after class sometime.
 

Howard

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Originally posted by: djheater
Be thankful that life isn't actually as melodramatic as you seem to think, and the mixed metaphor's made me chuckle.

the great panoply of the rest of your life still stretches before you. you have a great deal more time to spend, will you do so regretting inaction?
Mixed? Scrambled might be a little more precise.