YAGT: The "I Need Space" thread... *update 01/08*

[TheShiz]

"space" means its over, she's just trying to let you down easy.

 

Originally posted by: Red
This week, from 1/1 to 1/8, it's been weird. We haven't talked much and we haven't seen each other yet this weekend, and it's Saturday night.

Quite the roller coaster. Last time we talked about, I asked her if she has changed her mind at ALL, either in favor of staying with me, or going her own way... since December 15th, and she said no, but that's because she really hasn't had space because of the holidays. So, we're still in the same boat that we were in Almost 30 days ago... she needs space and isn't sure if she wants to be with me. She goes to work, goes home, and talks to her friends a lot on her cell phone. But doesn't talk to me at all, really.

So, dear, what happened to your beatiful, romantic plan for you two alone on New Year's Eve? :/ Aww....

Anyway, seriously Red, your mindset is just far off. I don't think that you get it at all. You're still so anxious and eager t o cling onto her. You should relax and take a break too. Don't depend on her to call all the shots. Volunteer the space yourself! Oh well, you'll never listen. But with the way it's going, you're screwed both ways--either in the short run or the long run.

You did take a step though. You refused the second kiss, unless you were just asking her without intentions to say no. Kudos to you for that step you took.

Thanks for keeping us updated.

 

[MustangSVT]

any updates? what happened?