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YAGT - Stupid rumours (pics)

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Lonyo

Lifer
I am going to have a rant. I'll try and keep it short and clear for all those with no attention span.
Ages: 16 for all of us.
Been going out 5 months.
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Not had sex yet.

An ex-friend called Alex (bloke) who fancies my girlfriend, and is a "friend" of hers says I told 2 other people (names Katie and also Alex - both girls, and friends with me and Alex (bloke)) that me and my girlfriend were sleeping together.
I did no such thing.
She believes that I said this, despite having no reason too (I don't really need an ego boost, and I don't talk about that sort of thing, even to my friends).
I rang the girl Alex, and she said she had no idea about the entire thing and that she had never mentioned it.
I tell my girlfriend Alex (G) has no recollection of it, she still thinks it may be true.

I am incredibly pissed off with my girlfriend for believing a story spread by someone who doesn't really like me. He may have picked up on rumours and decided to add names to substantiate what he heard, I don't know, and apparently I have to leave him out of it because it's between me and my girlfriend. I'm wanting to kick his ass.
I don't know whether to stick with my girlfriend because she seems not to believe me over him, and they haven't been friends for that long.
But apparently I was the one that spread the rumour, which is not true, I have never said we are sleeping together.

Cliff notes:
GF believe I said to people we slept together, I say I didn't and I have no reason to, she still believes I did.
I want to kick one of my ex-friends asses for saying I did say it. I'm thinking about splitting up with my girlfriend.
 
all u can do is tell her the truth and if she doesnht beleive u and the other friends then she may not be worth it. And if u do happen to break up with her kick the kids ass anyways for good measure.


oh and I'd hit it
 
Yep, just tell her the truth.

I don't really understand the big deal anyway. So someone spread a rumor that you're sleeping with your girlfriend. Big deal? Why would that cause your girlfriend and you to fight? I guess the deal is that someone said that you said something, and she thinks your lying.. hmm.

Rumors suck, though. Tell your girlfriend to get it straight from the horses mouth, there is no reason to believe rumors..

Communication is key in any relationship. She will believe you if you are indeed telling the truth.

Why in God's name would you break up with her because she doesen't believe you? I mean.. what's the big deal about all of this? 😕

It's getting way blown out of proportion.. It doesen't even matter...? Just talk with her.. Everything will be fine.
 
Relationships are all about communication & trust, if she chooses not to believe you, then the building blocks of a relationship are missing, move on... Find someone that's willing to trust you.

16 is too young to worry about it anyway. If it was my daughter, you'd already be dead.
 
You can't let the small things get between you in a relationship. Things like this don't even really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Just talk to her about it, and I'm sure everything will be fine.
 
Originally posted by: Zorro
Wonder how the GF would feel if she found out that you posted her picture on ATOT 😕
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Then why do people ask for pics then?

Well can you live in a relationship that your gf doesn't believe you? I know your young but you know what is important to you. Its obviously not just getting poon and having a relationship is more important to you.

I could not be in a relationship if my gf did not trust me. But if I was just wanting sex then I could live with her believing the stars were made of cheese...........

Your situation if you want the relationship to be serious and she won't believe you then dump her. If you can let it slide then let it slide.........
 
Dump her, kick ex-friend's ass, have a nice day.

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Originally posted by: Angrymarshmello
Just hit it. Then it's no longer a stupid rumor.
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hihih .. true, and we should be expecting two more threads from you,

1. howto: for virgins
2. OMG, she's pregnant!

 
Originally posted by: Glitchny
all u can do is tell her the truth and if she doesnht beleive u and the other friends then she may not be worth it. And if u do happen to break up with her kick the kids ass anyways for good measure.


oh and I'd hit it
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Yeah dude, you are only 16. You will have many more gf's. Dont sweat the small stuff.
 
If she doesnt believe you then its time to get another girlfriend, one who will give you the benefit of the doubt in a situation like this.

No trust = No worth.
~wnied~
 
Originally posted by: Lonyo
I am going to have a rant. I'll try and keep it short and clear for all those with no attention span.
Ages: 16 for all of us.
Been going out 5 months.
Pic
Not had sex yet.
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you were right... no attention span
 
Take your gf and go confront the dood.
If they both stick up for each other, then they are sleeping together, and you are chumped.
 
next time your with your gf, take her to confront your ex-friend and just take charge of the situation...of course he'll deny everything..but just question him into a corner:

do you or do you not have feeling for my gf?
so that's why your spreading rumors?
so what's the point of you spreading thse rumors?
what do i have to gain by spreading rumors?
what do you have to gain?

stay calm about it...when he starts yelling, it'll show that he's the loser...he'll probably start ranting conflicting statements, call him out on the discrepencies...basically just discredit this mofo in front of your gf...make sure you keep your cool while doing so...

if in the end of this whole confo she still takes his side...then dump her right there and then...and as much as i'm sure you can kick his ass with the rage you have, don't cuz he's not worth your time and effort, none of them are...tell her your dumping her cuz of her lack of trust in you and that she deserves a loser like that...
 
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