Ok, I've been dating the same girl for almost 3 1/2 years now, since high school basically. Freshman year of college (We go to the same school) my GF meets an old friend of hers. This girl is pretty much a knockout, so is my GF. We've been hanging out during summers mostly and going to parties and stuff during the year, all 3 of us that is. Well throughout this period of time, I've kind of grown to have a thing for my GF's friend. I mean, we're pretty much friends too, but I feel it has grown to be more. But the thing is, I don't know if this girl has been getting the same vibe I've been getting, and on top of it all, I don't want to hurt my current GF because I really do care for her and all. My question is though, what would you do about this? Do you think it's just a little phase for me? I really think about this all the time.
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MercenaryForHire
Lifer
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pillage2001
Lifer
You think dumping your gf now for her friend is gonna make things better?? Dude, you're gonna get into a serious mess if you ever do that. All I can say is, don't do it. Hurting your gf is more than enough and knowing that you're going after her friend would make her suicidal.
You better make it a phase for you.
I wouldn't throw 3 1/2 years away with someone just over a crush on some hot friend.
Even if she reciprocates your feelings, a relationship won't bode well with both of you having ties to your current g/f... and being in the same school also don't help.
Been down this path, and to quote that knight in Indian Jones & the Last Crusdade, "I chose... poorly."
Your girlfriend deserves better. Give her my number.
Well you could always show her your nutz and then talk about them 😉
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Stick with it ,3 1/2 years is a long time in seeing someone and dumping her now would have catastrophic effects
on her and good chance it would piss off her friend who have a crush on and that wont go very far either!
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Stick with it ,3 1/2 years is a long time in seeing someone and dumping her now would have catastrophic effects
on her and good chance it would piss off her friend who have a crush on and that wont go very far either!
Ladies Man
Platinum Member
You sir are an idiot.
This is like the roommate switch on seinfeld.... It's never been successfully done.
You can either go for a threesome and have both hate you.
Dump G/F go after other girl and throw away 3 and 1/2 years that you just had, and force that girl to lose her best friend *your current g/f*
or... Stick with what's been working and avoid the mess that you are about to have blow up in your face.
This is like the roommate switch on seinfeld.... It's never been successfully done.
You can either go for a threesome and have both hate you.
Dump G/F go after other girl and throw away 3 and 1/2 years that you just had, and force that girl to lose her best friend *your current g/f*
or... Stick with what's been working and avoid the mess that you are about to have blow up in your face.
1. You are an ass for considering ditching your g/f
2. Your girlfriend ALREADY KNOWS that you have a thing for her friend. Trust me. It'll come up when you least expect it.
3. You have a choice. Ditch your g/f, screw her friend, and never talk to either of them again -- or -- Tell your g/f that you don't think it's a good idea that her friend hang out with you anymore, because it might affect your relationship (upstanding boyfriend option). Ditching your g/f and DATING her friend will NOT work, because you will be destroying a) your current relationship, b)your g/f's relationship with her friend, and c) your friendship with this friend. Not worth it.
4. If you think you can get away with this without your pissed off ex telling your new girl ALL the crap there is about you, you have another think coming. If you can get away from this without major physical or emotional harm done to any party involved, you will be a god among men. in other words -- NOT POSSIBLE/
Don't do it.
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Your only hope for salvation is to suggest a threesome.
2. Your girlfriend ALREADY KNOWS that you have a thing for her friend. Trust me. It'll come up when you least expect it.
3. You have a choice. Ditch your g/f, screw her friend, and never talk to either of them again -- or -- Tell your g/f that you don't think it's a good idea that her friend hang out with you anymore, because it might affect your relationship (upstanding boyfriend option). Ditching your g/f and DATING her friend will NOT work, because you will be destroying a) your current relationship, b)your g/f's relationship with her friend, and c) your friendship with this friend. Not worth it.
4. If you think you can get away with this without your pissed off ex telling your new girl ALL the crap there is about you, you have another think coming. If you can get away from this without major physical or emotional harm done to any party involved, you will be a god among men. in other words -- NOT POSSIBLE/
Don't do it.
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Your only hope for salvation is to suggest a threesome.
That's plain disrespect, but if you must here's what I think:
If you still have feelings for your gf, then try to restrain from acting upon your feelings for her friend.
On the other hand, if you don't have strong feelings for gf (which I think is the case with you), then at least respect her and end it. Then you can pursue this new relationship with someone else. I can guarantee you that it'll fail, though.
If you still have feelings for your gf, then try to restrain from acting upon your feelings for her friend.
On the other hand, if you don't have strong feelings for gf (which I think is the case with you), then at least respect her and end it. Then you can pursue this new relationship with someone else. I can guarantee you that it'll fail, though.
You'd be stupid to try to take a leap. Remember, the grass always seems greener on the other side. It doesn't matter if she feels the same way bout u. you're still with your GF. The friend may only be nice to you because of this fact.
Remember that when you're taken, all the girls seem nicer to you. Say you hit on this chick, she doesn't feel the same way an tells your GF. Now you're really screwed. They both hate you and you're done 4.
Take it easy and do your chick as much as you can. You can imagine the other one for now. When you two finally get finished with each other, there will be time for the other one.
Remember that when you're taken, all the girls seem nicer to you. Say you hit on this chick, she doesn't feel the same way an tells your GF. Now you're really screwed. They both hate you and you're done 4.
Take it easy and do your chick as much as you can. You can imagine the other one for now. When you two finally get finished with each other, there will be time for the other one.
Underground727
Senior member
Don't get greedy. You will ruin your current relationship. I'm sure she already knows you like here friend.
If you are not sure if your girlfriends friend feels the same way about you, she doesn't. If she is making advances on you, then that is a different story.
Maybe try feeding them some bars and try to hook up with both of them.
P.S. - You don't really care about your current girlfriend that much...
Push your girlfriend's friend out of your head. Sure, it sounds nice, but odds are that if you break up with your girlfriend, BOTH of them will hate you, not just your ex.
Don't do it.
Don't do it.
I agree. Let the phase pass. Try to put some space between the friend and yourself, and spend more quality time with your GF. Don't burn any bridges, but try and focus on what you've put your time into, not into the hot friend. If you did go after the friend, you would really hurt your GF, and there is no guarantee that the friend would reciprocate. If she didn't you would have totally blown it with both of them. A girl in the hand is worth two in the bush...
That being said, remember, don't burn the bridges with the friend. If your GF breaks up with your, or things with her fall through for whatever reason, then you go after the friend as you have nothing to lose.
R
That's the way I've been seeing it the whole time really. I just hate how I have these feelings when I still really care for my current GF. I guess the reason if because throughout the school year we had alot of problems her and there. That may have contributed I think.
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