Folks, you will be proud of me. This time I have actually gotten off my butt and done some things, scoped out the situation a little more...
here's the scoop:
there's this attractive girl that I'm interested in (well there's a few of these actually) and I guess I just dont know how to operate under the threat of competition. For instance this one girl I kinda like, has a good share of guy friends (probably about 4 good guy friends at least) and it looks like any one of them could possibly be interested in her.
This same situation holds with some other girls that I am interested in too. how does one deal with a situation like this? Like I know that although frustrating at first, in the end competition is good, because it makes us all become better people. I guess what I'm wondering is... how do I compete without making things a little ugly?
Honestly I dont want to be an immature jerk. Like a dog among others fighting over a piece of meat. But at the same time I dont want to short myself out of an opportunity. How does one do this without doing the other?
To be more specific I went to a movie last night with 5 girls and 5 guys. the two cute girls there (the ones I'm interested) were being macked on the entire time of course. And its just scary cuz she has known these guys a lot longer and is better friends with them.
what the heck does a feller like me do?
here's the scoop:
there's this attractive girl that I'm interested in (well there's a few of these actually) and I guess I just dont know how to operate under the threat of competition. For instance this one girl I kinda like, has a good share of guy friends (probably about 4 good guy friends at least) and it looks like any one of them could possibly be interested in her.
This same situation holds with some other girls that I am interested in too. how does one deal with a situation like this? Like I know that although frustrating at first, in the end competition is good, because it makes us all become better people. I guess what I'm wondering is... how do I compete without making things a little ugly?
Honestly I dont want to be an immature jerk. Like a dog among others fighting over a piece of meat. But at the same time I dont want to short myself out of an opportunity. How does one do this without doing the other?
To be more specific I went to a movie last night with 5 girls and 5 guys. the two cute girls there (the ones I'm interested) were being macked on the entire time of course. And its just scary cuz she has known these guys a lot longer and is better friends with them.
what the heck does a feller like me do?