YAGT--Starting to have feelings for a bed friend..

RichardE

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Since the use of the F word in the title would probally get me banned/account locked. I am started to develop feelings for a girl I have known for about 7 years. We recently (2months ago) started sleeping together, but with no commitment, just friendship. She had her boytoys and I had my flings and it didn't bother neither of us. A few times she would cancel us going out somewhere or me comming to spend the night because her bf of the week was over and that was fine, it in all honesty didn't bother me.

The last 2 weeks though something changed, I started to actually have feelings for her more than just friend and bed buddy, and for her side she has been making sure that she got rid of all her flings in an obvious fashion, and comming out with reassurements here and there like

"Oh don't worry, I told him never to call again, or come over, your the only one I want ect"

So not to subtle either...

Soo what should I do?

Cliffs:

Girl I've known for 7 years has recently become a F*** buddy
Spent 2 months spending nights at her place/my place and having gf/bf's respectively on the side
Recently (2 weeks) we've started to develop feelings..

Now what?

Update

Went over tonight, we were suppose to spend the night together...another guy was there...


Well, that hurt, should have seen it coming, hello Karma, want another round?

Guess F&&& friends were not meant to be couples :(
 

bsobel

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Lets see, you like her, she likes you, the sex is good. And you need to come online and ask for advice? Is it lesbian sex your having, as your balls seem to have gone missing.
 
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Sounds like you have both already decided. If she's going exclusive and you're doing the same just go with it.

 

Stunt

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If you were willing to put the friendship on the line for the pleasures...do it again.

Sounds like you guys are good for each other.
 

pyonir

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Lets see, you like her, she likes you, the sex is good. And you need to come online and ask for advice? Is it lesbian sex your having, as your balls seem to have gone missing.

HAHAHAHAHAAHAH!!!!

End of thread.
 

RichardE

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Originally posted by: pyonir
Originally posted by: bsobel
Lets see, you like her, she likes you, the sex is good. And you need to come online and ask for advice? Is it lesbian sex your having, as your balls seem to have gone missing.

HAHAHAHAHAAHAH!!!!

End of thread.

Ouchy


Stunt's answer made sense. Guess I'll go for I and hope I don't get burned.
 

EvilYoda

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Your grammar and spelling makes me cry.

And, I personally don't think that relationships work between former fvck buddies...but good luck if she's that important.
 

RichardE

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Update

Went over tonight, we were suppose to spend the night together...another guy was there...


Well, that hurt, should have seen it coming, hello Karma, want another round?

Guess F&&& friends were not meant to be couples :(
 

rahul

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Originally posted by: RichardE
Update

Went over tonight, we were suppose to spend the night together...another guy was there...


Well, that hurt, should have seen it coming, hello Karma, want another round?

Guess F&&& friends were not meant to be couples :(

Maybe she wanted to try something kinky...
 

iliopsoas

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Originally posted by: RichardE
Update

Went over tonight, we were suppose to spend the night together...another guy was there...


Well, that hurt, should have seen it coming, hello Karma, want another round?

Guess F&&& friends were not meant to be couples :(


pwned

you went in knowing you were fvck buddies. shouldn't expect anything else. get over it and move on.
 

ShadoWing

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!!!!!!!!!!
 

jman19

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She says you're the one she wants... she invites you over one night and has some other guy she is banging there??? Holy sh!t man drop that and move on. She is either a ho or is just screwing with your head...
 

pinoy

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
i hate you. i have no girls. none. *commitss hari kari*

Ask richard her number. maybe she'll be your friend for a fee.
 

Colt45

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you should have got a three way going. obviously one guy is not enough for her
 

bsobel

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Originally posted by: jman19
She says you're the one she wants... she invites you over one night and has some other guy she is banging there??? Holy sh!t man drop that and move on. She is either a ho or is just screwing with your head...

Where from his post to you derive she was sleeping with this other guy?
 

bsobel

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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
i hate you. i have no girls. none. *commitss hari kari*

I guess I should brag about my 2 in this thread then, eh ;)
 

jman19

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Originally posted by: bsobel
Originally posted by: jman19
She says you're the one she wants... she invites you over one night and has some other guy she is banging there??? Holy sh!t man drop that and move on. She is either a ho or is just screwing with your head...

Where from his post to you derive she was sleeping with this other guy?

Why else would he have been bothered by the fact that said guy was there, if he wasn't an interest of this girl?