YAGT: sorry about the earlier thread..I took too long to type and edit :(

[sadb0i]

Well, awhile back I posted a thread about a girl that I've really liked for a long time and how she had just gone through a divorce.

Well, I've waited a little too long, so she found someone else .

However, it's OK because we are now talking more about her new relationship and about whatever. She asked me yesterday whether it's time to tell her newly made friend and potentially new BF(met 2 weeks ago) that she has a 2 year old daughter. He lives out of town and they've met for the second time last weekend.

I've told her that, it would be more fair to him that she tell him the truth.

She says she really likes him and doesn't want to tell him because they are not officially going out. She doesn't know how to approach the subject. He's never asked about what happened with the divorce.

Should she just tell him straight out she has a daughter or does she wait till they have the talk about persuing a relationship? I don't know what to tell her. Help?


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[chin311]

uhhh, id be be pissed if she didnt tell me until AFTER i was commited to her.

 

[gigapet]

:camera: ????????

 

[hopeless879]

OK, first of all you are in the worst position possible if you are trying to get with this girl. When you start giving her advice about what to do with her boyfriends, you've gone way beyond the friend zone and you will not get out. It looks as if you are doing whatever you can to try to please her (asking for advice on what to tell her about her relationship on a geek forum) with the hopes that she will end up wanting you. Sorry but I don't see that happening.

 

[jjones]

Tell her that the day after she marries the guy would be an appropriate time to let him know.

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: hopeless879
OK, first of all you are in the worst position possible if you are trying to get with this girl. When you start giving her advice about what to do with her boyfriends, you've gone way beyond the friend zone and you will not get out. It looks as if you are doing whatever you can to try to please her (asking for advice on what to tell her about her relationship on a geek forum) with the hopes that she will end up wanting you. Sorry but I don't see that happening.

 

[DougK62]

She should've told him on the first date. It's pretty crappy of her that she didn't.

 

[Buttzilla]

dude...i remember when you posted this awhile ago. you didn't do anything??? now she found some else and your comin back here asking for advise for this chick??? i dont 'know man. stop playing the sympathy role, get some balls, and take the initiative.

 

[Buttzilla]

and another thing, why dont' you ask her to sign up to this forum...maybe she can ask for her own advise.

 

[MithShrike]

You=t3h int3||3C7|_|/\|_ h0eR

 

[sadb0i]

Hey it's not about me and her anymore. I'm fine with where we are at. But anyway, back to the situation. It's sounding like the best thing to do is blurt it all out when she meets him again.

 

[ajayjuneja]

you = emotional lugnut.

Unscrew yourself please and save yourself from hurt. Don't go after women who are dating someone else. That is just stupid.

and don't be the boyfriend wailer, either.