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Iron Addict

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Originally posted by: sandorski
This is the second(that I'm aware of) thread concerning her and "guy friends". I think it's time for some serious re-thinking this relationship. She might be cheating on you, but even if she isn't you're having serious problems dealing with her hanging out with guys.

I may be uptight but I try to be reasonable when it comes to her hanging out with guy friends. I let her go to parties or hang out with her guy friends. But, knowing she's alone with a guy for at long and late at Tuesday night makes me worried and upset.
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: michaels
Oh the old battery dead line..lol. She has a cock in her mouth right now or is bent over geting drilled.

Shut up.
 

S Freud

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Maybe you spend too much time with your PC and not enough time with her. So she goes looking for "it" elswhere? :p
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: Iron Addict
Originally posted by: sandorski
This is the second(that I'm aware of) thread concerning her and "guy friends". I think it's time for some serious re-thinking this relationship. She might be cheating on you, but even if she isn't you're having serious problems dealing with her hanging out with guys.

I may be uptight but I try to be reasonable when it comes to her hanging out with guy friends. I let her go to parties or hang out with her guy friends. But, knowing she's alone with a guy for at long and late at Tuesday night makes me worried and upset.

Whoa whoa whoa..... You LET her?! Sorry, I'd be out of that relationship (meaning her leaving you) PDQ. You may have no meant it that way, but dayum..... No one LETS me do things in a relationship. Give and take, buddy. Give and take.
 

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
Aren't you the fool who posted a thread about your girlfriend of 3 years wanting to go on "1 on 1" encounters with guys she has just recently met? If so you obvioulsy didn't learn a damned thing in that thread. Whether you are willing to admit it to yourself or not you are being cheated on. You are now a doormat.

Good catch.

Sadly, she's probably cheating on you. You need to just dump this bitch already. Learn from your mistakes and move on. There are better girls out there for you.
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Originally posted by: michaels
Oh the old battery dead line..lol. She has a cock in her mouth right now or is bent over geting drilled.

Shut up.

Although a liitle blunt and crass it is likely the truth.
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: Ronstang
Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Originally posted by: michaels
Oh the old battery dead line..lol. She has a cock in her mouth right now or is bent over geting drilled.

Shut up.

Although a liitle blunt and crass it is likely the truth.
After realizing he's the one that posted the other thread about the chick, yeah, it might be true...but come on. I know this is the internet, but have some class. Ya know?
 

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Voted insecure based on this thread alone, but if you're the guy from that other thread, then no, you're probably a doormat.
 

Mo0o

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Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?
 

Iron Addict

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?

I'm 99.8% sure she's not cheating on me. She wouldn't, i kno her well. She will break up with me if she's got the urge to cheat.
 

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Originally posted by: Mo0o
Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?


This thread along with the one from last week are more than enough.
 

CRXican

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he's balls deep right now son

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A little to crass for my taste.

Take a week to learn some tact.

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Ronstang

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Originally posted by: Iron Addict
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?

I'm 99.8% sure she's not cheating on me. She wouldn't, i kno her well. She will break up with me if she's got the urge to cheat.


Take off the flipping blinders. Going on "1 on 1" encounters with guys she has recently met IS CHEATING....and she wanted to so that says it all. She is probably out test driving that guy tonigh. If so and all goes well you will get your pink slip soon enough. Sorry to be blunt but you need to wake up and stop being a doormat.
 

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Originally posted by: Iron Addict
Background: Girlfriend of 3 years of serious relationship went out with a guy friend and Im worried & upset.

She had ended her job interview at 4:20PM and called me saying, "I got done with my job interview and my friend xxxxx is gonna pick me up and hang out. My battery is really low and my phone's about to die. Bye." So, it's 11:31PM and it's been 7hours and 11minutes. Her phone is dead and she's not home yet. I have no way to contacting her since her cell is dead and I wonder what a girl and a guy could do for this long on a Tuesday. I'm worried and upset. I barely know this guy. Am i being unreasonable and should i act upset when who knows when she gets home? What should I do?!


Sorry but she's probably been spread eagle for the last 7 hours at some motel. Relationship over.

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Others were able to generate similar advice much more politely.

Take a couple of weeks for tact lessons.

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Baked

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I ran out of naughty things to do to your gf. She won't be calling you anymore.

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And you will not be calling for a couple of weeks.

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jaysgirl

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:( Do the two of you live together? Are you expecting her to come home to you or is her home somewhere else?
it's pretty bad to not call you after all this time, there are ways to get in touch if she wanted to
 

Mo0o

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If you're sure she's not cheating on your then what are you worried about. if you are then you should have a talk with her about it.