YAGT: So my girlfriend wants to make "new" friends...

[Goosemaster]

dude let her go....

then distance yourself the fvk away from her. Whether she is looking to play the "i want him to get jealous card" or the "let me jst fvk antoehr guy jsut this once card," it's not worth it.

just tell her you thought about it and thigns aren't going right. Tell her that you expect more and leave.

As in get your sh!t and leave righ now man:|



WTF DUDE, get UP AND START PACKING

 

[stars]

leave her regardless if she goes or not - she left you when she agreed to meeting him

 

[Rage187]

if she thinks she needs to go on one on one dates with other guys then tell her you think it's time you call it quits as you are a man and she is a whore.

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Women cheat. Yes there are exceptions to the rule, but by and large most women will cheat if the opportunity is right. If your game is tight enough you can get just about any woman to drop her panties.

Your GF is clearly expressing a desire to seek out others besides you. She's bored with you and she wants to try something new. I say cut your losses and move on, if you two are really meant to be together she will come back to you.

And please do not listen to the advice of any women here on this board. Women are not logical creatures, they are driven by their emotions more than anything. If your GF starts developing feelings for this guy she is not going to surpress them forever. Sooner or later she will act on them and you will feel like a complete chump.

BS, women are as different from each other as men are. You can't class all together, and you have no way of knowing what his girlfriend is like.

 

[quakefiend420]

if it were me, and she protested me coming along, i would seriously consider ending it on the spot

or you can play the game and say you have no problem with it, and have a woman there when she gets back that she's never met...what's good for the goose......

 

[Stumps]

Does she live with you?

If she does, have her stuff waiting for her on the front lawn after she returns from her "date".

But honestly I can say I have been in your situation before, and I knew what the other guy's intention's were before she went out with him, although afterwards it was pretty clear that she did too, but it was too late for her, she arrived home to find all of her crap laying from one end of the street to the other...that work great for me because the flat we where renting was only in my name so she didn't have a leg to stand on when she tried to make me leave instead.

trust me dude ditching her will be the best thing you can do...I did and I haven't looked back and now 6 years later I have a fiancee and a baby girl on the way, and things just keep looking up

 

[Shawn]

Definitely break it off.

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: HotChic
BS, women are as different from each other as men are. You can't class all together, and you have no way of knowing what his girlfriend is like.

We know all we need to know to classify her by her actions.

 

[bctbct]

probably her way of breaking up without coming out and saying it.

 

[stars]

any woman (or man) in a serious relationship that meets another 1 on 1 in this manner isnt worth being with, people can lie to themselves and say geez "their exploring" or "making new friends" etc. we can guess their nature or label them as whores etc but the truth is people grow and develop constantly throughout life and sometimes part of that growth evolves to having a different partner.

 

[reverend boltron]

Man, I have been in your position before. Honestly, if I were you I would just cut my losses and back out of there as clean as possible. Don't be mean, don't press the issue about not letting her hang out with guys one on one, and don't act jealous. Just say you think that it's time to go on seperate paths, and be done with it.

That stuff stinks so bad. You are always welcome to PM me if you want to talk though. I had that happen to me twice. One girl I dated for about 3 years and the other for about 2 years. It's lame, but it gets better. Just find a way to make yourself laugh.

My ex cheated on me in Mexico, so I was planning on making shirts that said, "My girlfriend cheated on me in Mexico, and all I got was this lousy T-shirt". I also photochopped some pictures.

Making silly t-shirts and photoshopping pictures isn't the most mature way to handle things, but at least it made me laugh.

 

[0roo0roo]

u are now free to buy/collect porn
she really has no ground to stand on to be against it now

 

[preslove]

You should say ok and then start calling her friends and being all upset and ****** and try to: 1). get a pitty fvck, 2). get her friends to think she's a whore, 3). let all this ****** get to her as you break it off.

 

[necine]

She's got some balls. Now grow a pair and set her straight. This will most likely occur by dumping her and not answering her calls/emails.

 

[yllus]

She's going to cheat on you if you stay in this relationship.

 

[her209]

My $0.02

Move on. Live your life. There are other fish in the sea. Bitchslap her when she tries to come back because they always do.

 

[stars]

listen to her209, they always come back. always like an annoying std.

 

[postmortemIA]

Making new friends=look for new bf and keep old one until the day new one is found

 

[Azndude2190]

Go along with them...if he doesnt mind than you shouldnt have anything to worry about...but this whole "1 on 1" thing seems fishy to me.

 

[Sqube]

Dude, she's done with you. She's just testing out the waters to see who she's going to replace you with.

Beat her to the punch, dump her, feel miserable for a while, then move on.

 

[D22]

I concur with the thought of most women needing someone else first to break up. ESPECIALLY if they are used to being supported - and I mean even partially supported. It's cowardly and sad, but that is just how they do it...

For the record on my major breakups, three had another man first, and only one legitimately left me without having her eye set on anyone...

 

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: Iron Addict
Couple months back, my girlfriend of 3 years, met a guy through one of her guy friends... Since then, they talked here and there at her work and found that they have another mutual friend... Now last week, he asked her to chill with him "1 on 1" and go out to dinner.. and she already said "yes"... Yesterday, she mentions that she's going out with this dude on Wednesday and i said no. Now she's all pissed and bitching about it... It's not like i dont let her hang out with guy friends, but this "new" guy just dont seem right logically... I already said i dont want her to go see him.. if she stills goes out with him ima break this long relationship off... what are ur thoughts..

1. You can't stop her.

2. You're right to dump her over it. He definitely wants to fvck her, and will if given the chance. Also, the fact that she is putting up such a fuss over it shows that she will probably be receptive to said fvcking. Your "male instinct" has been honed over thousands of years, and is correct on this.

3. I'm sure the more "modern" members (ie, pussy-whipped dickless PC faggots) of this forum will tell you you're a cromagnon for being threatened and trying to control her, but thats because their girlfriends are getting anally violated by a different drunken frat-boy every weekend, and they're powerless to stop it, and have been brainwashed that its OK to be a progressive patsy. Trust me, I've done enough violating to know the truth...they're all "decent old-fashioned women" until their options change.

4. You give in to this bvllsh*t, and you become part of the reason women who cheat get everything in divorce court nowadays. We've been so concerned about making everybody "equal" that we let the pendulum swing way too far in the other direction. The simple rule should be: penis or not, if you cheat first, the other person gets everything. Fair and simple, and if you disagree, you're the cheater.


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There was no need for the bolded phrase in your post.

You are welcome to come back after 2 weeks. Hopefully then you will have a little more respect toward others

 

[Rachael]

The guy does seem kind of fishy- a one on one dinner seems somewhat date-like for a guy who is really just getting to know her. For people who are just friends, the invitation seems a bit too formal.

I have to say I disagree with those who are responding that he should assume she's looking for someone else and get out though. Her intentions might be legitimate, I wouldn't immediately break up with her for such a reason. If you have a concern as to why she accepted the invitation in the first place, then talk to her about it.

 

[buck]

Originally posted by: MazerRackham
How about option C. It's about to be over soon so you might as well break up with her.

Sorry dude, but you are headed to Aloneville, Population: You.

LMAO!

 

[stars]

if communication was present in the relationship she would have spoke to the op before agreeing to the meeting. just a guess