YAGT: So I am going out with this girl...

[Xionide]

Ok here is the deal. I have been hanging out at my friends house and their is this chick their that I have been talking to a lot. I asked her out on saturday. The problem is before we were going out I could talk to her really easily. Now it's like I dont know what to say. Like my conversation skills just dropped. And I have had this problem before too with other chicks. I don't want to bore her. But I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

 

[arcenite]

Pretend she's not your girl, and don't think everything you say is going to get you/restrict sex

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Don't be afraid of comfortable silence....you don't need to be squacking all the time.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Imagine her naked.

 

[DotheDamnTHing]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Imagine her naked.

lol

 

[maziwanka]

almost 8000 posts man and this is what you post?

 

[Drakkon]

dont think about it? so logn as your thinking of what to say you'll never say anything cause u over analyze too much...
thus stop thinking about it and just ask her if she will give u pic of her in a thong to post on the intarweb

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: maziwanka
almost 8000 posts man and this is what you post?

He's still wet behind the ears IRL

 

[HamSupLo]

rub one out before you date on Saturday so can talk and think about things besides jumping her bones. that'll make your conversation easier.

 

[deejayshakur]

when in doubt what to say, lightly spank her on the bottom. that should spark some new conversation.

 

[Reel]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Imagine me naked.

*Shudder*

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: Reel

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Imagine Reel naked.

*Shudder*

/me starts rubbing

 

[Hough NutZ]

Do a little research on the subjects that you know she's interested in. ie. Her favorite band, movie..etc. That way you'll have something to contribute to the conversation in times that it's awkwardly silent, and you know she'll be interested in discussing those topics.

Also, it'll take some practice but try to ask opened-ended questions. These type of questions usually begin with How? or Why?

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: Reel

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Imagine Reel naked.

*Shudder*

/me starts rubbing

Quote-editing bastards.

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: Hough NutZ
Do a little research on the subjects that you know she's interested in. ie. Her favorite band, movie..etc. That way you'll have something to contribute to the conversation in times that it's awkwardly silent, and you know she'll be interested in discussing those topics.

Also, it'll take some practice but try to ask opened-ended questions. These type of questions usually begin with How? or Why?

Too many of these questions and she'll feel like she's playing 20 questions.

 

[PrayForDeath]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: Hough NutZ
Do a little research on the subjects that you know she's interested in. ie. Her favorite band, movie..etc. That way you'll have something to contribute to the conversation in times that it's awkwardly silent, and you know she'll be interested in discussing those topics.

Also, it'll take some practice but try to ask opened-ended questions. These type of questions usually begin with How? or Why?

Too many of these questions and she'll feel like she's playing 20 questions.

Exactly, don't overwhelm her with these types of questions.

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: PrayForDeath

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: Hough NutZ
Do a little research on the subjects that you know she's interested in. ie. Her favorite band, movie..etc. That way you'll have something to contribute to the conversation in times that it's awkwardly silent, and you know she'll be interested in discussing those topics.

Also, it'll take some practice but try to ask opened-ended questions. These type of questions usually begin with How? or Why?

Too many of these questions and she'll feel like she's playing 20 questions.

Exactly, don't overwhelm her with these types of questions.

A simple How was your day goes a long way. After that, keep it easy.

 

[Xionide]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: Hough NutZ
Do a little research on the subjects that you know she's interested in. ie. Her favorite band, movie..etc. That way you'll have something to contribute to the conversation in times that it's awkwardly silent, and you know she'll be interested in discussing those topics.

Also, it'll take some practice but try to ask opened-ended questions. These type of questions usually begin with How? or Why?

Too many of these questions and she'll feel like she's playing 20 questions.

Ack thats exactly what I feel like I am doing.

 

[cmdrmoocow]

I think the best advice so far is to just forget she's your date.

 

[andylawcc]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: Reel

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Imagine Reel naked.

*Shudder*

/me starts rubbing

/me will start stabbing!!!

 

[nakedfrog]

Next time there's an awkward silence, just ask if she'd like for you to toss her salad.

 

[DotheDamnTHing]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Next time there's an awkward silence, just ask if she'd like for you to toss her salad.

ask her to eat some salad to shed a few cow pounds

 

[shaddupfool]

i wish you didn't post a picture..

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: DotheDamnTHing

Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Next time there's an awkward silence, just ask if she'd like for you to toss her salad.

ask her to eat some salad to shed a few cow pounds

bwahahahaha...my thoughts exactly :laugh:

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: DotheDamnTHing

Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Next time there's an awkward silence, just ask if she'd like for you to toss her salad.

ask her to eat some salad to shed a few cow pounds

Where's your girl?