YAGT: So, do I have her or is she playing me for the fool? w/ AIM conversation

[SithSolo1]

For those of you who remember way back to August you may have seen my previous YAGTs.

Long story short:
Met girl
Went out
girl left for school
wouldn't talk to me
thought she hated me
now



She was Idle so I sent her this:

Ashley, for what it's worth, I'm sorry. It's clear to me now that something I did irreparably damaged our friendship. I have a good idea what that thing was but at the time it didn't seem so harmful. I can tell you don't want to talk to me so I won't disturb you anymore. You're probably thinking to yourself, "Duh, what took him so long?" We'll, I guess I'm a little on the slow side. If by some
grace of God I am wrong, then I guess I look like a jackass right ... about ... now. It's just when I don't get any feed back I tend to think the worst. It's a bad habit, but it's one that I have. Anyway, like I said, if you want to talk I'm here if not I won't bother you.

~ 40mins later:


Her (8:14:15 PM): heky
Her (8:14:16 PM): hey
Me (8:14:21 PM): hey
Her (8:14:24 PM): what is up with you?
Her (8:14:33 PM): sorry....i haven't been here for the last hour
Her (8:14:56 PM): and it's not that i don't want to talk to you but i am extremely busy
Me (8:15:54 PM): I get that you're buzy but when ever I try to talk to you I never get more than a few words and then nothing. What am I supposed to think?
Her signed off at 8:16:39 PM.
Her signed on at 8:18:42 PM.
Me (8:27:47 PM): I'm sorry that I upset you, but I've never know anyone so busy that they don't have time for friends. More than anything I want to make this work, but I can't do it by myself. :-(
Her (8:27:58 PM): awww...i'm really sorry
Her (8:28:18 PM): if you don't believe me as far as the busyness, just ask my roomate
Her (8:28:21 PM): or anyone up here
Me (8:28:27 PM): I trust you
Her (8:28:37 PM): and my computer is not working right
Her (8:28:46 PM): it's really nothing against you...i promise
Me (8:30:48 PM): Maybe I can fix your computer.
Her (8:31:03 PM): it won't stay online
Her (8:31:19 PM): i might be comin to athens this weekend
Her (8:31:58 PM): young harris is way different than uga
Her (8:32:10 PM): i wish you would believe that...i am involved in everything
Her (8:32:28 PM): i don't get much sleep and i rarely have a break
Me (8:34:44 PM): If you have room bring your computer and I'll take a look at it.

I believe you and I realize that I don't have a clue what it's like up there.
Her (8:35:10 PM): yeah it's crazy
Her (8:36:18 PM): i'm taking 18 hours, president of a soriety, chair of the volunteer adisory board, mentor, in sky club, the leadership program, i have a job, i play intramural sports, and i am involved in religious life
Me (8:36:23 PM): I can only imagine
Me (8:36:42 PM): WoW! =-O
I had no clue
Her (8:38:37 PM): yeah i can even tell u my day to day schedule if you want...i have two labs...no mornings or afternoons free
Me (8:41:12 PM): I understand, my roommate is kinda like that
Her (8:41:49 PM): yeah
Her (8:44:03 PM): hey...i really got to write a paper
Her (8:44:04 PM): i
Her (8:44:15 PM): i'm sorry if it seems that i have been avoiding you
Her (8:44:27 PM): i haven't meant anything at all by it
Her (8:44:52 PM): but i gotta run so i can get all this crap done
Her (8:44:57 PM): it was good talking to ya
Me (8:45:02 PM): If you are gonna bring your computer lemme know if you wanna bring it by so I can make sure I'm free. Good Luck with the paper
Her (8:45:02 PM): lata dude
Me (8:45:04 PM): cya
Her (8:45:08 PM): ok thanks
Her (8:45:09 PM): i will
Me (8:45:11 PM): ok
Her (8:45:11 PM): bye

Well?

 

[yruffostsif]

pics?

 

[SWirth86]

Take a hint dude...
Youve gotta figure this one out on your own

 

She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

 

[SithSolo1]

Originally posted by: SWirth86
Take a hint dude...
Youve gotta figure this one out on your own

No pics.

I don't know what to think, that's why I'm asking every one.
I asked my friends first, you guys are 3rd.

 

[zer0burn]

you kept mentioning youd fix her computer but she didnt seem to care... Meaning probably doenst want to see you.

Shes too busy as it is move on.

 

[TechnoKid]

She really is busy...and maybe her priority isn't on you; school could be number one for her for a while.

 

[Kadarin]

Not only do you not have her, she could give a rat's ass about you.

 

[yruffostsif]

damn, no pics....she obviously thinks that she is superior, screw that noise....go party, get laid, it's college, it's supposed to be fun.

 

[FuZoR]

if she really liked you... then she would have gone out of her way to make some time...

and it doesnt seem that way :-(

 

[Schadenfroh]

Text

interrorgate her then

 

[Danman]

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

Mean and honest.

- M4H

 

[iwearnosox]

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

Cashman sez

Bam!

 

[SWirth86]

Originally posted by: SithSolo1

Originally posted by: SWirth86
Take a hint dude...
Youve gotta figure this one out on your own

No pics.

I don't know what to think, that's why I'm asking every one.
I asked my friends first, you guys are 3rd.

She doesnt like you.

Sucks, but thats the way it goes. Now go listen to depressing music, get drunk and wake up the next morning a reborn person.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

Cashman sez

Bam!

Cashman sez "404"?

- M4H

 

[isaacmacdonald]

yeah, apathy is actually worse than antipathy. sucks, but you'll be fine.

 

[SWirth86]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

Cashman sez

Bam!

Cashman sez "404"?

- M4H

you just dont get it

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: SWirth86

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: iwearnosox

Originally posted by: cashman

Originally posted by: SammySon
She's away at school. She's living her life.
The more you act like a clueless pussy bitch, the less she will have to do with you.

Is life this hard to understand kids?

BAM.


That's the sound you hit it right on the head.

Well, in a mean way though.

Cashman sez

Bam!

Cashman sez "404"?

- M4H

you just dont get it

Oh, I've seen the picture that Sox intended. The 404age is simply strong in that link, it seems. (Yes, tried C&P, drag & drop, etc ...)

- M4H

 

[conjur]

"sorry....i haven't been here for the last hour"
"and it's not that i don't want to talk to you but i am extremely busy"
"if you don't believe me as far as the busyness, just ask my roomate"
"and my computer is not working right"
"wish you would believe that...i am involved in everything"
"i don't get much sleep and i rarely have a break"
"hey...i really got to write a paper"
"but i gotta run so i can get all this crap done"
"it was good talking to ya"


Ya know...it's amazing your skull didn't cave in. Esp. considering how many times you were clubbed over the head with a clue stick!


Fugetaboutit...it's over.

Move on.

 

[iwearnosox]

Bam ?

 

SIth, give it up dude. I told you before - it sucks, but she's totally still not into you.

 

[Shockwave]

The day a man can figure out if he's bein played from an IM convo is the day women cease to exist.
Dont even try. I know some guys who cant figure out for YEARS if the person they LIVE with is playin them, dont even try to do it from a IM convo.

 

[SithSolo1]

Not one post out of line with what I expected. At least I can read some people through the internet.

 

[cheapgoose]

so what if she's intersted in you, you looking for a long distance relationship.

move on, there's plenty of ...you know the rest.