YAGT - Should I regret ...

[Aimster]

I went back to my place with my girlfriend who is a virgin. She wants to be a virgin till she gets married and she is religious and has always stood by her virginity. I had a chance to take it away tonight but I didn't want to hurt her if it didn't work out so I declined. By the way I am perfectly happy in this relationship , I don't need to have sex in a reltionship to be happy.
What would you of done?

 

[zixxer]

yagt.org or .com.

 

[hjo3]

God, write a letter to Dear Abby. Stop torturing me with this crap.

 

[waylman]

In other words, now she wants to have sex with you and you are too big of a pussy to do anything.

 

[agnitrate]

If I were you, I would have stopped posting long ago.

-silver

 

[CT2TXtech]

Originally posted by: agnitrate
If I were you, I would have stopped posting long ago.

-silver

lmao

 

[PunDogg]

if SHE wanted to have sex, then go ahead and have sex guilt free

Dogg

 

[clamum]

Originally posted by: PunDogg
if SHE wanted to have sex, then go ahead and have sex guilt free

Dogg

 

[Azraele]

You did the right thing. If it does work out for you two, it makes your wedding day all the more magical and special.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: waylman
In other words, now she wants to have sex with you and you are too big of a pussy to do anything.

Or maybe man enough to control himself?

When I first started dating my fiancee, she was a virgin at the ripe old age of 24. She said she wasn't necessarily waiting for marriage, she was just waiting for the right person. One night, we got blitzed and were having some fun on the bed, and she said "Let's do it!" I said "Maybe we should wait until some other time..."

She later told me that if there was any doubt in her mind about me being the "right person," that moment cleared it up.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: waylman
In other words, now she wants to have sex with you and you are too big of a pussy to do anything.

Or maybe man enough to control himself?

When I first started dating my fiancee, she was a virgin at the ripe old age of 24. She said she wasn't necessarily waiting for marriage, she was just waiting for the right person. One night, we got blitzed and were having some fun on the bed, and she said "Let's do it!" I said "Maybe we should wait until some other time..."

She later told me that if there was any doubt in her mind about me being the "right person," that moment cleared it up.

 

[Aimster]

She is religious and the only reason she wants to do it is because we promised marriage and deep down inside I do not feel it yet (she doesn't know it).. I couldn't hurt her if it didn't work out, that's just me.

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: Aimster
She is religious and the only reason she wants to do it is because we promised marriage and deep down inside I do not feel it yet (she doesn't know it).. I couldn't hurt her if it didn't work out, that's just me.

you promised you would marry her and didn't mean it? What is wrong with you man?

 

[Aimster]

No I want to marry her and I am treating her better than I have ever treated anyone before. I'm faithful and commited and I never felt this way before. I love her , but I look at the reality of things when I am with someone and she is 18 .. 18 year olds change guys just as fast as they change shoes. She is still growing up and so am I.. Who knows what the future holds.

 

[PunDogg]

Originally posted by: Aimster
No I want to marry her and I am treating her better than I have ever treated anyone before. I'm faithful and commited and I never felt this way before. I love her , but I look at the reality of things when I am with someone and she is 18 .. 18 year olds change guys just as fast as they change shoes. She is still growing up and so am I.. Who knows what the future holds.

so both of you are 18 year olds?? yeah you guys are still growing up, plus with college and/or work you might meet new people, but thats honarable of you not to do it

Dogg

 

[agnitrate]

I'm going to post a thread in similar fashion :

'Hay guys, I was at church today when the collection plate was being passed around and I totally wanted to take some of that cash, but I didn't because I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and God loves me, and I would hate myself, and somebody please tell me I'm a good person because I didn't do this. SOMEBODY PAY ATTENTION AND LOVE ME'

do you want a cookie?

-silver

 

[waylman]

well, if you want to marry her and she wants to marry you, go for it

 

[anno]

you're a very responsible sounding young man, aimster.. your girlfriend is a lucky gal.

 

[fastz28]

You did the right thing.

 

[Kadarin]

I would replace her with a girlfriend whose silly religious beliefs do not conflict with human nature.

 

[OmarGustav]

I'd pop that cherry!

 

[huesmann]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
I would replace her with a girlfriend whose silly religious beliefs do not conflict with human nature.

Oh, you mean the human nature of having babies?

 

[unclebud]

dude did the right thing!
i'm impressed most def!
the only thing he did wrong was bothering to come in here and ask a bunch of losers for their opinions... most of them probably HAVE NEVER EVEN HAD A GIRLFRIEND TO BEGIN WITH, so their motivations/reasonings ARE TOTALLY SUSPECT.
take it from the ATCQ: "do what you feel, do what you feel... if it's real."
props

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: huesmann

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
I would replace her with a girlfriend whose silly religious beliefs do not conflict with human nature.

Oh, you mean the human nature of having babies?

never heard of birth control?

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
I would replace her with a girlfriend whose silly religious beliefs do not conflict with human nature.

Wow - I hope your girlfriend doesn't believe in using condoms or birth control, because that would be conflicting wiht human nature. While we're at it, I hope she doens't wear any tampons or a pad, since it is human nature to just let it come out (it was used as a sign of fertility in ancient times).

YOu = dumbass horny bitch.