YAGT: Should I call my Ex-gf back?

[Ilmater]

Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

 

[halik]

hit it

 

[mrrman]

why bother...leave it alone and move on

 

[sixone]

Not unless you want to start up with her again.

EDIT: If you feel the need to explain yourself, call when you know you'll get her machine/voice mail/WE. Leave a message.

 

[meltdown75]

your call dog

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: sixone
Not unless you want to start up with her again.

EDIT: If you feel the need to explain yourself, call when you know you'll get her machine/voice mail/WE. Leave a message.

This is the answer I was afraid of, but unfortunately, I don't have the slightest clue when to call her that she won't answer. I know she was getting a new job, and I don't know her hours. But yeah, I do want to explain myself.

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: Ilmater
I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

why aren't you going to see her again?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

so she's a willing booty call whenever you feel like it?

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

so she's a willing booty call whenever you feel like it?

AKA she's "on tap"

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: tami

Originally posted by: Ilmater
I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

why aren't you going to see her again?

She lives 3 hours away. She had to move 2 months after I met her.

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

so she's a willing booty call whenever you feel like it?

Meh. If she was in town and I wanted to, I don't think for a second we couldn't hook up, but I'm really not interested and I don't want to completely screw her up.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: meltdown75

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

so she's a willing booty call whenever you feel like it?

AKA she's "on tap"

:laugh:

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: halik
hit it

I already did. If I wanted more of that, I would have talked to her.

so she's a willing booty call whenever you feel like it?

Meh. If she was in town and I wanted to, I don't think for a second we couldn't hook up, but I'm really not interested and I don't want to completely screw her up.

well if she'll spread her legs that easily for you when you are broke up, then she's spreading for other guys just the same.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: sixone
Not unless you want to start up with her again.

EDIT: If you feel the need to explain yourself, call when you know you'll get her machine/voice mail/WE. Leave a message.

This is the answer I was afraid of, but unfortunately, I don't have the slightest clue when to call her that she won't answer. I know she was getting a new job, and I don't know her hours. But yeah, I do want to explain myself.

Afternoon is probably the safest time to call, then. If you need to, block your number and call until she doesn't answer.

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
well if she'll spread her legs that easily for you when you are broke up, then she's spreading for other guys just the same.

You're not wrong (she definitely likes sex), but I think it's the combination of "the sex was good" and "she hopes to lure me back with it" that would drive it more than "she's so horny she'd do anyone."

 

[iroast]

Just call her. Keep it friendly, courteous and short. No harm in that.

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: iroast
Just call her. Keep it friendly, courteous and short. No harm in that.

No harm? She's a girl. I didn't enjoy breaking up with her. Calling her again will be like breaking up with her again.

 

[Scarpozzi]

"I ain't no holla back girl.... I ain't no holla back girl!!!"

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: iroast
Just call her. Keep it friendly, courteous and short. No harm in that.

No harm? She's a girl. I didn't enjoy breaking up with her. Calling her again will be like breaking up with her again.

i sense you still have more feelings for her than you want to admit.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: mrrman
why bother...leave it alone and move on

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
"I ain't no holla back girl.... I ain't no holla back girl!!!"

that sh#t is bananas

 

[Sentinel]

You broke up with her, so you don't owe her anything.

 

[iroast]

Originally posted by: Sentinel
You broke up with her, so you don't owe her anything.

Um, it's the other way around.

 

[mitmot]

dont do it man, its not worth your time.