No poll because I'm more interested in commentary.
I travel a lot, and my company employs consultants that also travel a lot. Often many of us are in a new city for an extended period of time with only a few people that we know. I've never had a problem with it personally.
We brought on a new consultant about 2 weeks ago, and just last week he had his girlfriend fly in to stay with him while he's here. I've met the girl, but the extent of our conversation was something like, "Nice to meet you."
Anyway, her birthday is today so four of us are going out to a nice restaurant for dinner. I don't know the girl, but the other friend of mine that's going suggested that I should bring a birthday card. Huh? Maybe I'm out of touch with trends in social formalities, but isn't this a bit odd? Perhaps it's a nice gesture, but it just seems a little awkward to me. I personally would not expect someone in my position to bring anything for me.
Thoughts? Petty issue, I know. I'm just curious.
I travel a lot, and my company employs consultants that also travel a lot. Often many of us are in a new city for an extended period of time with only a few people that we know. I've never had a problem with it personally.
We brought on a new consultant about 2 weeks ago, and just last week he had his girlfriend fly in to stay with him while he's here. I've met the girl, but the extent of our conversation was something like, "Nice to meet you."
Anyway, her birthday is today so four of us are going out to a nice restaurant for dinner. I don't know the girl, but the other friend of mine that's going suggested that I should bring a birthday card. Huh? Maybe I'm out of touch with trends in social formalities, but isn't this a bit odd? Perhaps it's a nice gesture, but it just seems a little awkward to me. I personally would not expect someone in my position to bring anything for me.
Thoughts? Petty issue, I know. I'm just curious.