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YAGT: Should I ask my coworker out?

Beev

Beev

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Cutting to the chase: She's pretty hot, but she doesn't seem like the type of person I would "be with forever." Working up the courage to ask her isn't the issue, if I decide to do it I just will, but should I even waste my time?

Note: This doesn't mean I'm just after her tail, she seems like she'd be fun to hang out with too.
 
Originally posted by: Sraaz
Cutting to the chase: She's pretty hot, but she doesn't seem like the type of person I would "be with forever." Working up the courage to ask her isn't the issue, if I decide to do it I just will, but should I even waste my time?

Note: This doesn't mean I'm just after her tail, she seems like she'd be fun to hang out with too.
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Absolutely
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
The expression "don't sh!t where you eat" didn't come from nowhere. Be careful...
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IE: Don't piss her off and get myself fired via blackmail?
 
Originally posted by: Shadowknight
Uncomfortable working situation if things go bad + possibility of sexual harrasement if she's feeling vindictive.
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Don't dip your pen in the company ink.😉

 
"Now we sleep together and suddenly, I don't know how to talk to her. Every time I go to the bathroom I pass her desk. I have to plan little patter. I spend half my day writing. Then afterwards, I sit in my office and analyze how it went. If it was a good conversation, I don't go to the bathroom for the rest of the day. I see her laughing and talking with other people, they're all so loose and relaxed, I think, 'that used to be me. I want to go back there again."

"What are you gonna do?"

"I have no choice, I'm quitting."
 
You can sit around wondering all your life if you should have done it, or you can do it and be satisfied knowing the answer. If you get shot down, you'll be over it in a day or two.

 
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
"Now we sleep together and suddenly, I don't know how to talk to her. Every time I go to the bathroom I pass her desk. I have to plan little patter. I spend half my day writing. Then afterwards, I sit in my office and analyze how it went. If it was a good conversation, I don't go to the bathroom for the rest of the day. I see her laughing and talking with other people, they're all so loose and relaxed, I think, 'that used to be me. I want to go back there again."

"What are you gonna do?"

"I have no choice, I'm quitting."
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Extremely doubtful. I work 11pm-7am, she comes in at 7am 3 of my 5 days to take over.
 
Since you guys have different work schedules I would go for it. It could be uncomfortable if you get rejected and then have to spend all day every day looking at her. Go for it. (and include pics)
 
Well, first make sure there isn't a company policy... if there is one, dont bother.. cuz someone will report it and get you fired...
 
I would actually advise against this, unless you work at some crummy job like subway and don't really care about staying there. Since you don't really see anything long term from the get go...this further increases the possibility of this ending horribly.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
The expression "don't sh!t where you eat" didn't come from nowhere. Be careful...
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yeh i havent had the best luck when going out with coworkers. ask yourself : when things go south what will i do when were at work together and cant get away? i never asked myself that and i payed, watch out man.
 
I ended up not asking her. Instead I pryed her for information. She says she's "sort of seeing someone."
"Sort of?"
"Yeah"
"Ooooh, like friends with benefits!"
"Ew... no..."

That poor guy 😛
 
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