Originally posted by: Zap Brannigan
OP, if you don't mind your gf's ex sticking it in her ass, I mean going to dinner and stuff then your 1 month "serious" "relationship" should be safe, so when you two love birds getting married? LOL
Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: zixxer
to make a long story short - I've been dating this chick for about a month. We're fairly serious, (even though it's a short period of time, I know) and have agreed to be monogamous.
An ex of hers is in town for the night - from what I understand they had a fairly slack relationship.. basically nothing serious, mainly physical, and he met some chick so they stopped seeing one another. I think him and this chick have since broken up
She talked to me beforehand and I was like yeah it's just dinner right.. no big deal. Now I'm almost 'second guessing' myself. Should I be concerned?
Was his name Chris?
Originally posted by: pontifex
lol, do you guys not learn from the other threads that have been posted recently or what?
wow...
seriously, they had a purely physical relationship before and they want to get together for dinner?
Originally posted by: zixxer
Originally posted by: Zap Brannigan
OP, if you don't mind your gf's ex sticking it in her ass, I mean going to dinner and stuff then your 1 month "serious" "relationship" should be safe, so when you two love birds getting married? LOL
Honestly wtf? Ban?
Originally posted by: Kev
Originally posted by: pontifex
lol, do you guys not learn from the other threads that have been posted recently or what?
wow...
seriously, they had a purely physical relationship before and they want to get together for dinner?
I'm starting to believe all the advice given on ATOT is from the "paranoid nerd" perspective. Do any of you people have the ability to trust?
Originally posted by: arcas
Huh? Did they go to Wendy's or something? What kind of "dinner" takes only an hour? If they were gone for 2 hours or so, I'd be inclined to believe that it was legit but an hour-long dinner (which presumably included driving to the destination...you said she called on her way home) plus the casual-sex-history between her and her ex makes me wonder if something else was going on instead.
Anyway, you two have only been together for a month so it doesn't really matter. Let it slide. If this becomes a habit, then it's time to re-evaluate things.
Originally posted by: tk109
Well thats good she wasnt gone long.
Originally posted by: zixxer
she just called - she's on her way home.. no big deal, she was gone like an hour or a little over.