YAGT. She left today. ***UPDATED***

bigredguy

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She and I went to school together when we were younger and we hung out a lot. I kept in contact with her over the years and my work happened to bring us back into each others life. We just spent the last 2 weeks together and she left today for spring break and then she flies off to Japan for 4 months. I will be able to see here when she gets back but she will only be back a month before she leaves for Ireland for 9 months. I have no idea where I wil bee in 14 months. This really sucks.
 
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Originally posted by: bigredguy
Drinking by myself tonight mean i am an alcoholic?

I'll drink to that!

Take it easy ... don't worry yourself sick. Go out with your friends. See a movie. Go to a club. Relax. Enjoy life.

- M4H
 

BD231

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Ehhhhhh, just forget about her till she stays put in your area. Distance=hell.
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: bigredguy
Drinking by myself tonight mean i am an alcoholic?

I'll drink to that!

Take it easy ... don't worry yourself sick. Go out with your friends. See a movie. Go to a club. Relax. Enjoy life.

- M4H

Hmmm.... Sulking by myelf with some tequila sounds pretty good, but you're right about getting out and getting on with my life is about all I can do.
 

LOLyourFace

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you can also gimme a call to ease your loneliness.. I'll be up late until 1am tonight baby..

978 934 6849 ;)
 
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Originally posted by: bigredguy
Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Go with her you damn fool! If you really love her.

I would if I could, but it's quite impossible.

If you love her like "crush" her then suck it up and be a man and move on. If you really love her then there's no way you could let something get in your way. Go in debt. Wreck your life. For real love...totally worth it. :)
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: BD231
Ehhhhhh, just forget about her till she stays put in your area. Distance=hell.

I know, we put it on hold for now. I just in hope that in 14 months we can pick up where we left off.
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: bigredguy
Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Go with her you damn fool! If you really love her.

I would if I could, but it's quite impossible.

If you love her like "crush" her then suck it up and be a man and move on. If you really love her then there's no way you could let something get in your way. Go in debt. Wreck your life. For real love...totally worth it. :)


In any other situation I would but ..... i can't....
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: Nyical
I would if I could, but it's quite impossible


If you truley love her, nothing is impossible!

I know, and if she was leaving forever i would follow her at the drop of a hat. But the reprecussions of just packing up everything and going with her to japan out weigh being apart for 14 months.

 

Krk3561

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You'll get over it eventually...

BTW, what does YAGT mean? Yet Another Girl Thread????
 

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If it's any consolation, I'm gonna pop open a beer right now. I am totally alone and I love drinking alone. I'm proud of it. I can drink alone and nobody knows.


BTW, I'd start trying to look hard for a different girl. No girl that was in love with you would leave for that long. Girls will take more drastic measures than guys will to stay together. Find a new hottie, dude. Oh, and get drunk tonight.
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
you can also gimme a call to ease your loneliness.. I'll be up late until 1am tonight baby..

978 934 6849 ;)

why haven't u called yet?!

The only long distance call I will be making tonight will be her.
 

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Originally posted by: bigredguy
Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
Originally posted by: LOLyourFace
you can also gimme a call to ease your loneliness.. I'll be up late until 1am tonight baby..

978 934 6849 ;)

why haven't u called yet?!

The only long distance call I will be making tonight will her



Oh!!! that is soo sweet... sobbing here now!
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
If it's any consolation, I'm gonna pop open a beer right now. I am totally alone and I love drinking alone. I'm proud of it. I can drink alone and nobody knows.


BTW, I'd start trying to look hard for a different girl. No girl that was in love with you would leave for that long. Girls will take more drastic measures than guys will to stay together. Find a new hottie, dude. Oh, and get drunk tonight.

The Japan trip was set in stone before I made it back, still a good chance she will cancel Ireland trip.