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Jun 14, 2003
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so ive been going out with this girl for over a year now, but things arent to good tbh. weve been arguing alot, and im really really busy with my course at uni (which is the source of most arguments) so i dont have loads of time to be sending emails, and texting etc. get to talk for a while on msn on a night when im tired, but its just not fufilling, and id rather be in bed !!!

as i said we been going out for over 1 year, but i just dont feel much for her anymore. the distance, and all my work etc have all built up n i kinda jus feel like bleh! i guess i just dont want a girlfriend anymore.

she cant stand me not being able to talk to her, and always moans about it and it jus annoys the sh1t out of me

of course i can jus say hey look its not really working lets call it a day, but i dunno i get the feeling i just cant. she still seems to be totally crazy about me, and im just :-| shes a good person but she worrys way to much and gets her self in to a right state sometimes. i dont think i could live with hurting her like that coz it would crush her. im afriad she would do something stupid.

cliffs
* had a girl for a year +
*gone off her
*jus want to be single so i can concentrate on my work
*shes crazy bout me
*not sure how to break it to her
*possibility something daft might happen

let the beatings begin, expecting half the posts to be pointless, expecting 1 spider post, and a few lifers to lambast me bout my english
 

J0hnny

Platinum Member
Jul 2, 2002
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Just let her down gently. Tell her that it's not her, but you. You want to remain friends though. Trust me, it always works.
 

Jzero

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Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
and a few lifers to lambast me bout my english

Bullocks! You post YAGT and we lifers will take the piss right proper regardless of your use of vernacular.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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better for her in the long run to let her go... but make sure that's how you feel about her even without schoolwork keeping you busy.
 

Zysoclaplem

Diamond Member
Sep 26, 2003
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Yeah, just tell her you can't give her what she deserves right now. She deserves better, and you just can't do it anymore. And if she keeps on nagging, point behind her and ask what that is, then when she turns around punch her in the back of the head and run.
 

yllus

Elite Member & Lifer
Aug 20, 2000
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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Yeah, just tell her you can't give her what she deserves right now. She deserves better, and you just can't do it anymore. And if she keeps on nagging, point behind her and ask what that is, then when she turns around punch her in the back of the head and run.
LOL!
 

DivideBYZero

Lifer
May 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
and a few lifers to lambast me bout my english

Bullocks! You post YAGT and we lifers will take the piss right proper regardless of your use of vernacular.

It's BOLLOCKS, you coloquialism n00b.
 

Queasy

Moderator<br>Console Gaming
Aug 24, 2001
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Screw some other girl, take pictures with your camera phone, send them to her over MSN chat.

Problem solved.
 

GasX

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Why would she be so enamored of messaging with someone with your command of the English language?
 

SnipeMasterJ13

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Oct 20, 2004
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Break it off if you arent happy with it. If she does something crazy, take it as a compliment that you are that awesome.
 

Jzero

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
and a few lifers to lambast me bout my english

Bullocks! You post YAGT and we lifers will take the piss right proper regardless of your use of vernacular.

It's BOLLOCKS, you coloquialism n00b.

pwned :(
 

Brassman

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Nov 6, 2000
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Break it off now... There's no reason to go and stay with her and then break up later... With more time spent "together", it's just gonna hurt her even more when you guys eventually break it off.

I had a girl that stayed with me an extra 6-months or so after she knew that she didn't want to be with me anymore, and I would've much rather had her break it off earlier!!
 

jjones

Lifer
Oct 9, 2001
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Tell her you want to have sex with her and her best friend. No matter what she answers, it will work out for the best.
 

StageLeft

No Lifer
Sep 29, 2000
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Damn you for making this thread, because it's entirely useless. Are you looking for advice? Mockery? Sympathy?
 

Ryuson99

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Feb 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Damn you for making this thread, because it's entirely useless. Are you looking for advice? Mockery? Sympathy?

It is useless thats why the OP made the topic and then never return.