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YAGT: Ran into ex last night **pic added** **found pic of ex**

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SethK28

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Long story short, I "dated" this girl for a year or so and we were never commited to bf/gf. I had feelings for her and the sex was amazing, but I just didnt want to settle down. I was screwing about 7-8 girls on the side over the course of the year. Well towards the end of it her best friend declared his love to her and she stopped seeing me. No biggie, at least I thought. She told me a week or so later that she found out she was pregnant when she went to go study abroad and when she came home she aborted the baby. Didnt ask me if it was cool or anything. Since then I have been dating a wonderful girl for almost two years and I love her to death. However I ran into the ex the other night and she told me she misses me so much etc, etc. She wants to meet up and have lunch after class. She was looking fine as hell and all the thoughts of the great sex we had came back into my mind. My current g/f isnt very sexual and wont try things that I did with this other chick. SO my question is Should I even think about going to lunch with the ex?

*** Ran into the ex again last night at a bar, and she was all over me, I held my ground and told her it wouldnt be in either of our interests to hook up, or anything of the sort. She got pissed called me a coward, and I told her I have way to good of a thing going right now with my g/f to ruin it by messing around with her.***

*** Finally remembered the password to the ex's sorority picture page and found one of a recent party she was at**


g/f

g/f 2

g/f 3

ex on left
 
If your willing to risk a girl that you 'love to death'

sure why not.

doesn't sound like you love her to death to me though.
 
Originally posted by: SethK28
Since then I have been dating a wonderful girl for almost two years and I love her to death.q]

If you truley do love her to death, you wouldn't even consider getting started with the ex again....just my 0..02
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your not an asshole, your a freaking idiot. If you were screwing 7-8 girls on the side, she's screwing 14-16.

Have fun with that.
 
Well, if you were whoring around with 7-8 girls while "seeing" another, why not do it again? Even asking for advice on the matter shows you still have a monogamy ineptitude, so why stop now? 🙂
 
Originally posted by: ZePHyRaNTHeS
Originally posted by: SethK28
Since then I have been dating a wonderful girl for almost two years and I love her to death.q]

If you truley do love her to death, you wouldn't even consider getting started with the ex again....just my 0..02
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It's only human nature to want to bone her again.
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Sexual chemistry can be a very important thing in a relationship; if you consider it such a negative with your current g/f and don't feel that it can be improved or salvaged, you might want to consider this. However, this other girl may well have issues of her own, given that she had the abortion without consulting you (then again, she had every right not to given that you were not committed to her and also were screwing 7-8 other girls at the time, so it was apparent to her that you weren't ready to settle down..)

It's your call.
 
Originally posted by: SethK28
yah thats the problem, I so want to hop into bed with her again.
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is the girl your seeing marriage material? If not, bang the other girl on the side. simple as that.
 
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Wow, you're an asshole.
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pretty much my first thought. You got to start thinking with the big head on top of your body. From the sounds of it, you have a great girlfriend for the past 2 years and you want to waste it all for a little fling with the -ex? Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions and you'll come back and say, "it's JUST lunch" but after reading you're post, "who are you trying to kid?"
 
Originally posted by: waylman
Originally posted by: SethK28
yah thats the problem, I so want to hop into bed with her again.
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is the girl your seeing marriage material? If not, bang the other girl on the side. simple as that.
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Yeah she is definetly marriage material, and more than likely we will. Its just weird I never though I would have feelings for the ex, which I do but purely on a sexual level
 
SO my question is Should I even think about going to lunch with the ex?

My Question is: Why the hell are you asking us?

Considering That:
A) I was screwing about 7-8 girls on the side
B) She told me a week or so later that she found out she was pregnant when she went to go study
abroad and when she came home she aborted the baby
AND
C) Since then I have been dating a wonderful girl for almost two years and I love her to death

If you ask me (and you have in a round-a-bout way) I think you've answered your own question.

~wnied~
 
Originally posted by: SethK28
Originally posted by: waylman
Originally posted by: SethK28
yah thats the problem, I so want to hop into bed with her again.
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is the girl your seeing marriage material? If not, bang the other girl on the side. simple as that.
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Yeah she is definetly marriage material, and more than likely we will. Its just weird I never though I would have feelings for the ex, which I do but purely on a sexual level
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In that case, if you do bang the girl make sure its a one time deal. It's not worth ruining a relationship with your future wife.
 
Originally posted by: wnied
SO my question is Should I even think about going to lunch with the ex?

My Question is: Why the hell are you asking us?

Considering That:
A) I was screwing about 7-8 girls on the side
B) She told me a week or so later that she found out she was pregnant when she went to go study
abroad and when she came home she aborted the baby
AND
C) Since then I have been dating a wonderful girl for almost two years and I love her to death

If you ask me (and you have in a round-a-bout way) I think you've answered your own question.

~wnied~
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Yeah your right, guess this was a pointless thread afterall

 
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