YAGT - POLL: Should I end it?
- Thread starter Scarpozzi
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YAGT?
and instead of ending it b/c it inconveniences you...have you tried TALKING to the girl? Maybe it's a bad thing you've never fought...i dunno. I always fight w/ my boyfriend..and we've been together for over a year now..heh.
TALK to the girl...ask her nicely that you want time to yourself...and that it bothers you that she calls so much. if she's willing to listen and change..then there might still be a chance for you guys.
Good luck!
and instead of ending it b/c it inconveniences you...have you tried TALKING to the girl? Maybe it's a bad thing you've never fought...i dunno. I always fight w/ my boyfriend..and we've been together for over a year now..heh.
TALK to the girl...ask her nicely that you want time to yourself...and that it bothers you that she calls so much. if she's willing to listen and change..then there might still be a chance for you guys.
Good luck!
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My problem is that I want out of the relationship mainly. It's just that I have a birthday coming up next Thursday and all she's talked about is how perfect it's going to be. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she's obviously gone way out of her way for something. I really do care about her, but at the same time, I don't feel like she's the one for me to settle down with. (I'm turning 23 next week) I don't want make her think that she has to prove herself to me because it'll only break her heart over and over...I want to just distance myself from her and end it. It'll be easier to do once school starts up in a few weeks....
jesus f*cking christ. i thought asking about girls and if you should make a move was bad, now we have ppl asking if they should break up when we have no idea about either of them.
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If you got space from her would you date others? If so then I would tell her that you want to see others but still care about as a friend.
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But seriously...I think ending it now right before the big birthday celebrationg it sounds like she has planned for you would be a bad idea. Maybe hint at it, talk to her, tell her you need some space, and if it doesn't workout within a couple weeks let it go.
Originally posted by: mpitts
TELL THAT BITCH TO CHILL!
LOL....say, "Bitch, be cool"....like Fonzy
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LOL.....yeah. The only reason I ask is because I don't usually get in "long" relationships. I usually keep them to a few months and don't always put forth a lot of effort. (full time work/school keep me from having extra time) I still like to date and go out and have fun, but I don't know if I'm ready for this chick because she's talking about kids and marraige. You guys know what I'm talking about. I'm just trying to get a degree and figure out where to go from there...I don't want to get married just yet.
Originally posted by: Staley8
Originally posted by: mpitts
TELL THAT BITCH TO CHILL!
LOL....say, "Bitch, be cool"....like Fonzy
SAY BITCH BE COOL!
hmm..I think I must've hit the wrong button. I could've sworn I hit reply.
anyway...i was saying,
should i be scared that my boyfriend's the one talking about marraige and babies??
eeks..maybe I should end it all too!!
anyway...i was saying,
should i be scared that my boyfriend's the one talking about marraige and babies??
eeks..maybe I should end it all too!!
Once you break up with a girl the following ones will be easier.
Also the very fact you want out shows that you should end it NOW NOW NOW OMG NOW instead of dragging it out.
When the right girl comes along, marriage will seem like a natural progression of the relationship instead of a "HOLY CRAP SLOW THE FSCK DOWN WOMAN" moment. You're young and you obviously either don't know for sure what you want in a woman or just aren't ready to start anything permanent -- yet.
Here's what you do. This takes TACT, BALLS, and GRIT. If you wuss out, it's your own damn fault if the relationship goes sour.
Sit her down and TALK to her. Tell her how much you like her (if you've said the L-word before then this makes it harder). As a couple, assess the current relationship and how happy you are with everything. Bring all your problems out into the open. TELL her that she makes you feel pressured/smothered. See what your options are for fixing this if you want to stay together. If you want out, just tell her that, take your stuff, and go. Don't let her sucker you into staying out of pity. THat's the worst.
Also the very fact you want out shows that you should end it NOW NOW NOW OMG NOW instead of dragging it out.
When the right girl comes along, marriage will seem like a natural progression of the relationship instead of a "HOLY CRAP SLOW THE FSCK DOWN WOMAN" moment. You're young and you obviously either don't know for sure what you want in a woman or just aren't ready to start anything permanent -- yet.
Here's what you do. This takes TACT, BALLS, and GRIT. If you wuss out, it's your own damn fault if the relationship goes sour.
Sit her down and TALK to her. Tell her how much you like her (if you've said the L-word before then this makes it harder). As a couple, assess the current relationship and how happy you are with everything. Bring all your problems out into the open. TELL her that she makes you feel pressured/smothered. See what your options are for fixing this if you want to stay together. If you want out, just tell her that, take your stuff, and go. Don't let her sucker you into staying out of pity. THat's the worst.
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