YAGT: Please Answer Poll

[eigen]

It aint gonna work...cut both those sorority whores loose

 

[rh71]

Kissing ? No, that's not enough to qualify as cheating. Especially during break-time.

You shouldn't have said you weren't going to date anyone (is that the word you really used?) though.

 

[Atomicus]

Making out is so superficial, she should look past that.
Or just say she was dressed in drag and you thought u were getting into a gay relationship :roll:

 

[Rainsford]

Scarpozzi, do you know any women at all? I only ask because you don't seem to be getting why she is upset. Whether or not you were on a "break" (quite possibly the dumbest, junior high drama crap ever, btw), your relationship of 1 year and 7 months was obviously unimportant enough to you for a couple of days apart to result in you making out with some other random girl. Girls (and guys) tend to get mad when their ex hooks up with someone else a day after the breakup, right? It's the same concept, people (especially girls) like to think relationships were important enough to the other person that they don't "get over it" that quickly.

Look, I'm not saying I agree with that logic all the time, but you've got to admit, when a 3 or 4 day break is long enough for you to end up making out with another girl, that sends the message you aren't too interested in your relationship. THAT'S why she's upset...I'm not sure why you didn't see that coming.

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
My GF and I went on a break months ago... 1 or 2 nights after the break, I ended up making out with this girl in a sorority. My GF and I ended up getting back together a few days after we decided to take a break. I told her that I wasn't going to date anyone else and this girl sort of showed up at my door b/c of my roommate's friends. It was a 1 night that only involved kissing... Turns out my gf pledged the sorority and the girl is like a mentor to my GF. It didn't take the gossip long to reach her....it broke her heart/hurt her feelings. She's basically calling me a cheater. What do you think? Please answer honestly cause I may need this poll as evidence that I wasn't totally in the wrong.

My girlfriend just did that to me, according to her it wasn't cheating.

 

[lokiju]

You were on a break = not possible to cheat by just kissing, but I can understand her having hurt feelings, but she's in no position to hold that against you.

 

[CPA]

Hold on! Wait just a minute. You're seriously thinking of using the poll results at a geek forum as "evidence" that you weren't wrong?


bwahahahahaahahahahahaha...........

 

[mchammer187]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi

"On a break" implies "not together", which means "free to do as you please". If she didn't want you to get with anyone else, why did she want a break?

She didn't want a break.... I did. I didn't want one to go out and fool around with other girls though....it just happened because I had been drinking that night. 😕

i think she has a valid argument now since you initiated ( i was with you until this part)
and look how things ended up
that looks real bad

IMO you should just apologize

 

[jjones]

I say you turn this situation around, use it to your advantage, and get both of them in the sack. If you're successful, I want pics. 😛

 

[alm4rr]

Just dump her already and start goin out with the makout chick