YAGT: Personal responsiblity

acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.
 

BlueWeasel

Lifer
Jun 2, 2000
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

Run away NOW.

 

meltdown75

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she must be bringin' some great COOKING skills if you're sticking with her. am i right?!
 

leftyman

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.


"Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better. " keep pointing that out to her, and your problem will be solved shortly.;)
 

acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: meltdown75
she must be bringin' some great COOKING skills if you're sticking with her. am i right?!

Yeah. Right. The last time I let her cook for me, she took a fork to my brand new teflon pan that I had to save for a month to afford.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.

Why do you have a GF who needs to be taught anything? Does she make you feel all manly and in control?
 

acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.

Why do you have a GF who needs to be taught anything? Does she make you feel all manly and in control?

Right now she wants to register for a seminar. She can't communicate with the <she put a racial slur here> on the phone and wants me to find out more information for her myself.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.

Why do you have a GF who needs to be taught anything? Does she make you feel all manly and in control?

Right now she wants to register for a seminar. She can't communicate with the <she put a racial slur here> on the phone and wants me to find out more information for her myself.

She wouldn't ask if she wasn't pretty sure you'd do it. Dump this 3 year old and find a real woman.
 

mitmot

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Aug 11, 2005
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Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.

Why do you have a GF who needs to be taught anything? Does she make you feel all manly and in control?

Right now she wants to register for a seminar. She can't communicate with the <she put a racial slur here> on the phone and wants me to find out more information for her myself.

She wouldn't ask if she wasn't pretty sure you'd do it. Dump this 3 year old and find a real woman.

i think sixone is offering. ;)
 

DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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time to move on... she needs time to grow independantly of someone to use as a crutch otherwise you will have problems in your relationship when it gets serious.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: mitmot
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Why does the GF always want to make her problems my problems. If she's affraid she'll sound dumb when she asks a question, how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Then, to top things off, she gets mad at me for pointing out that her acting helpless only makes things worse, not better.

How do you teach a college senior that you can't just hand off the things in life that are "hard" to other people? Hell, she handed me the phone once while she was on the phone with her boss and asked me to quit her job for her.

WTF.

Why do you have a GF who needs to be taught anything? Does she make you feel all manly and in control?

Right now she wants to register for a seminar. She can't communicate with the <she put a racial slur here> on the phone and wants me to find out more information for her myself.

She wouldn't ask if she wasn't pretty sure you'd do it. Dump this 3 year old and find a real woman.

i think sixone is offering. ;)

My husband would LOVE that. ;)
 

allisolm

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Jan 2, 2001
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"...how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Not as dumb as the guy who goes ahead and asks after all that. :)
 

acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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Originally posted by: allisolm
"...how dumb does she look when I have to ask a question for her... aka "gee, my gf wanted to know the answer to this. I told her the answer and I told her what you would say but she made me ask anyway."

Not as dumb as the guy who goes ahead and asks after all that.

true :(
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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If she is not both hot and sexually talented and adventurous, you should dump her. There seems to be no upside to this situation so far.