YAGT: Owned myself just to own myself!

RollWave

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So i just graduated fro college and I met someone during the last few weeks that I developed feelings for after she left (we basically talked to each other for hours and hours a day).

She's going to be in DC and I'm going to be in New Orleans, but I decided to stop being a pansy about ****** like this and wrote her a letter telling her how I feel and sent her a fun little package knowing that the way she is she would not reciprocate

While what I did achieved nothing..we basically just put it behind us and still aim or whatever all the time...I still feel fvcking liberated...its good to let this kind of crap off one's mind
 

RollWave

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Originally posted by: meltdown75
Oh well, at least you let her know how you feel.

Exactly. I generally just bottle ****** up and never really ever say anything. Its good to finally say something even if I got the cold shoulder. I'm more likely to say something when the time is right with someone else (or so I feel)

As to the other comments, the gist is I let her know how I feel even though I knew she wasnt going to react by reciprocating
 

RollWave

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Originally posted by: spidey07
1st rule man.

men and women are not supposed to be friends.

Yeah I'm not sure about this one....while I see that its way obvious that I got rocked by the friend zone in this case I think a relationship that starts as friendship and becomes something more will definitely be more fruitful.
 

RollWave

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I made some personal progress. So yes, I want a god damn cookie. She's obviously not giving me one!
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: rnp614
Originally posted by: spidey07
1st rule man.

men and women are not supposed to be friends.

Yeah I'm not sure about this one....while I see that its way obvious that I got rocked by the friend zone in this case I think a relationship that starts as friendship and becomes something more will definitely be more fruitful.

hate to break it to you, but you need to ditch that line of thinking.

seriously...a woman knows very quickly if they can love you. very quick. like 1 day quick.