YAGT: Older Woman.

[Kev]

To quote Monty Python:

"Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!!"

 

[Tremulant]

Originally posted by: Kev
To quote Monty Python:

"Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!! Run Away!!!"

 

[multiband8303]

Originally posted by: Chunkee
you clearly dont have good judgement... it is good you asked for advice....good lord..you dont hump where you work...

get out and find a new job and learn from it

jC

....To be blunt honest, and this is no excuse, this is the first time I have engaged in this kind of activity. Once again though, it is HIGHLY unlikely that I will be with this company after this week - because after pure speculation I would have to be compensated more then my direct "supervisor" in order for them to merely match my pay. That's a whole other thread, (People's opinion of you turns a complete 180 once rumor goes about that you have outstanding offers from other companies - that are willing to compensate you more) anyways - so us being in the same work environment is more then likley not an issue anymore.

 

[doze]

Originally posted by: multiband8303
Appreciate the advice guys - keep it coming. I'm more then likely just going to sit her down and say "here's whats up - Let's continue "dating" - but be allowed to see other people, go out have fun - if you want to do something with me, fine, if you got other plans, fine, same reversed." And observe to see how she takes it. And also another interesting thing I saw - I had to use her phone during lunch - maybe I AM being paranoid, but just as a side note - this woman CONTINUES to ALWAYS delete her call log... *raises eyebrow* - *shrug* just rather strange I thought. But then again, maybe I AM being paranoid and over analyzing, rofl.

Just break it off clean, your just delaying the inevitable with the seeing other people thing.

 

[multiband8303]

Originally posted by: doze

Originally posted by: multiband8303
Appreciate the advice guys - keep it coming. I'm more then likely just going to sit her down and say "here's whats up - Let's continue "dating" - but be allowed to see other people, go out have fun - if you want to do something with me, fine, if you got other plans, fine, same reversed." And observe to see how she takes it. And also another interesting thing I saw - I had to use her phone during lunch - maybe I AM being paranoid, but just as a side note - this woman CONTINUES to ALWAYS delete her call log... *raises eyebrow* - *shrug* just rather strange I thought. But then again, maybe I AM being paranoid and over analyzing, rofl.

Just break it off clean, your just delaying the inevitable with the seeing other people thing.

Valid Point - any other input guys?

 

[Amused]

As you get older and date older women you will learn a very valuable term:

"Single for a reason."

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: Eghck
if you're having doubts about trust this early, I can't see it getting much better in the future.

 

[Maxspeed996]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
after like 25-26 the selection of good ones becomes less and less.

most on there 2nd, 3rd, 4th marriages.

lots of what I would call scrap metal. Used and abused junk. proceed with caution.

LOL!! I've noticed this to be true as well!! I'm happily married (thank goodness) , but if I were to ever hit the field again...it would be young college girls for sure , I don't know how much more of that madness my heart could take!!!

BTW - IcebergSlim....you and I seem to run into each other a lot in these conversations!

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
A lying woman has trouble changing her manipulating ways. You're niave to think she's lying to everyone but you.

I was saying stay with her in my mind up until I read the lying part.

I just got out of a relationship like that and it was the BEST thing I ever did. She STILL, a month and a half later calls wanting to work it out, but I continue to catch her in major lies and she'll still deny them

Such is the way of a chronic, habitual liar.

I can second that.
Liars don't stop lying, regardless of their sex.

 

[MasonLuke]

stay your distance, but tap it once in a while.

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
A lying woman has trouble changing her manipulating ways. You're niave to think she's lying to everyone but you.

I was saying stay with her in my mind up until I read the lying part.

I just got out of a relationship like that and it was the BEST thing I ever did. She STILL, a month and a half later calls wanting to work it out, but I continue to catch her in major lies and she'll still deny them

Such is the way of a chronic, habitual liar.

I can second that.
Liars don't stop lying, regardless of their sex.

The sex was the only thing that kept me with her so long

(BTW, I know you meant sex in a different way)

Women are better liars than men because they are craftier and have more control over there emotions. Everyone has tells when they lie. I have a knack for seeing that stuff, but I look for it.

I had a bad gut feeling with the last relationship I was in from the very first day, but she seemed like the catch of a lifetime from the outside, so I stayed.

Everyone I've talked to since says the same thing about her, she's one of those people who you love from the word go, you can't help it, but that once you get to know her well, you hate her.

Thing is, she NEVER had a reason to lie. It never had to be that way, but they just do it because it's a mental illness.

 

[Scarpozzi]

Trust me, if she got divorced already....she may have issues. Most guys don't divorce until 33-35. You might want to figure out what happened in her marraige that caused it to end...

 

[mrrman]

doesnt sound good...Id run the other way

 

[multiband8303]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Trust me, if she got divorced already....she may have issues. Most guys don't divorce until 33-35. You might want to figure out what happened in her marraige that caused it to end...

Husband cheating on her - why? good question - she is very nice, fun to be with, great in the sack to boot. But I can start to observe why one man might become "unfaithful" after witnessing that breakdown.

 

[SpanishFry]

she's crazy. seriously

 

[ITJunkie]

Originally posted by: sonambulo
just bail dude. for siht like this to be happening this early its a bad bad bad sign. run.

 

[LuNoTiCK]

pics?

Anyway you seem to have the right idea. Don't go exclusive, don't make any big committments with her. Stop overanlyzing every situation, even if it is true, because it will only affect you in the end.

 

[rivan]

Between the lying and working with her, I can't see why this is even a question for you.

 

[SViper]

If you pull out now, there will be this weird awkwardness because you still have to see her everyday at work. I would fly a holding pattern until you get the other job. Otherwise she can tap you for sexual harrassment. From what you have already explained about his girl, a harrassment charge would probably be likely.

If you don't get the other job...well...you are between a rock and a hard place there my friend.

 

[iliopsoas]

Originally posted by: multiband8303
Appreciate the advice guys - keep it coming. I'm more then likely just going to sit her down and say "here's whats up - Let's continue "dating" - but be allowed to see other people, go out have fun - if you want to do something with me, fine, if you got other plans, fine, same reversed." And observe to see how she takes it. And also another interesting thing I saw - I had to use her phone during lunch - maybe I AM being paranoid, but just as a side note - this woman CONTINUES to ALWAYS delete her call log... *raises eyebrow* - *shrug* just rather strange I thought. But then again, maybe I AM being paranoid and over analyzing, rofl.

You're making your situation worse. Run, Forrest, run!!

 

[winr]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
A lying woman has trouble changing her manipulating ways. You're niave to think she's lying to everyone but you.

I was saying stay with her in my mind up until I read the lying part.

I just got out of a relationship like that and it was the BEST thing I ever did. She STILL, a month and a half later calls wanting to work it out, but I continue to catch her in major lies and she'll still deny them

Such is the way of a chronic, habitual liar.

Listen to the voice of experience.


I have been there and would run like h@ll.

 

[multiband8303]

ROFL highly unlikely - as she is a higher up then me, and I can cite...very...explicit emails that were sent to me the day I was hired....

 

[HardcoreRobot]

this isn't about age, its about baggage and deception

no woman is worth being lied to

 

[Al Neri]

pics?

 

[sswingle]

Get out while you still can