Originally posted by: ggnl
Originally posted by: Trey22
If you haven't gotten any being the Nice Guy, what makes you think you'll get any now? I'd stick to posting in ATOT, you'll definitely score more.
QFT
You can't just decide to be confident and suave. You either have it or you don't.
Most people can just decide to be confident and suave, but they have to really decide that. Most people want to decide to be confident and suave without having to actually put themselves on the line like a confident and suave person would.
The main diffrence between a confident and suave person and you is a confident person knows he will probably get emotionaly hurt and is not afraid, a suave person knows that there is a good chance that eveyone will laugh at him, but does it anyway.
"I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."