YAGT: Not sure what to do...

[schizoid]

So I met this girl (yes, on the internet, shut up) and she seems cool. Well, in the interest of full disclosure, I haven't "met" her yet, but we have tentative plans to meet up soon. She seems really cute and sweet and nice and I'm just not sure what to do about it. She lives in the same city as me (LA) but sort of far away. I can already see myself bristling at the prospect of driving to see her, but I think I really like her. I guess I should wait until we see each other in person (she's going to buy me cookies...that's a good sign, right?!) but I was just wondering if you guys have any advice.

Thanks.

 

[rival]

advice for what?

 

[Schadenfreude]

Play it by ear. If she liked what she's heard so far, and it sounds like she does (that's why you're planning on meeting her, right?), just do what you've been doing . . ..

Congrats(?) and good luck . . ..

 

[KarenMarie]

Be kewl. Remain calm and don't stutter!

And don't forget to wear clean undies!

 

[schizoid]

Originally posted by: rival
advice for what?

I dunno. See, I'm just not sure if she likes me. I mean, I think she does, since she said she'd get me cookies (although it was because she lost a bet) but I'm not sure you know? I guess I'm just wondering how should I know, you know? Like, when do I make a move? I hate making moves unless I'm SURE the girl is feeling me.

 

[Ronstang]

How does one determine that someone is "cute" from internet contact? Pics? If so who is to say they are of her. Get away from that damn computer, enter the real world, and go meet some women face to face and interact!!!!!!

 

[dfi]

Bring a friend that can help you beat up a 300 lb gay rapist. Just in case. Or at least meet in a public place.

dfi

 

[schizoid]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
How does one determine that someone is "cute" from internet contact? Pics? If so who is to say they are of her. Get away from that damn computer, enter the real world, and go meet some women face to face and interact!!!!!!

I've seen LOTS of pics. I know it's her. She just did a photo shoot (she's that hot) with some guy. I know it's her, but I'm just not sure if she feels the same way, you know?

 

[stormbv]

Go for it and expect anything. At best it's the love of your life, at the worst, a man. Your experience will PROBABLY fall in between those two extremes, but maybe, just maybe...

 

[olds]

Pics or ban

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: schizoid

Originally posted by: Ronstang
How does one determine that someone is "cute" from internet contact? Pics? If so who is to say they are of her. Get away from that damn computer, enter the real world, and go meet some women face to face and interact!!!!!!

I've seen LOTS of pics. I know it's her. She just did a photo shoot (she's that hot) with some guy. I know it's her, but I'm just not sure if she feels the same way, you know?

Then get off the damn computer, stop asking advice from asses like me, and GO FIND OUT!!!!!! All you have to lose is a few buck in gas, a few hours of your time, and the possibility that she doesn't feel the same and your fantasy is kaput. On the other hand you could actually find out what real boobs feel and look like instead of those porn ones you grew up with. GO GO GO!!!!!!

 

[Compton]

Originally posted by: schizoid

Originally posted by: Ronstang
How does one determine that someone is "cute" from internet contact? Pics? If so who is to say they are of her. Get away from that damn computer, enter the real world, and go meet some women face to face and interact!!!!!!

I've seen LOTS of pics. I know it's her. She just did a photo shoot (she's that hot) with some guy. I know it's her, but I'm just not sure if she feels the same way, you know?

How do you know you're not meeting the guy who did the photoshoot?

Just be yourself.

 

[stormbv]

Yeah, don't wait around, listen to your gut before your mind gets in the way. Hopefully it's not a man.

 

[schizoid]

Eh.

I'm just worried...because she's made comments before about how she hates it when guys always want to be more than friends. What if she's talking about guys like me?

Like, she is sorta geeky, and ALL SORTS of guys want her, so I don't want to be just another in a long line of dorks who drool over her that she just wants to be friends with.

 

[fyleow]

Originally posted by: Compton

Originally posted by: schizoid

Originally posted by: Ronstang
How does one determine that someone is "cute" from internet contact? Pics? If so who is to say they are of her. Get away from that damn computer, enter the real world, and go meet some women face to face and interact!!!!!!

I've seen LOTS of pics. I know it's her. She just did a photo shoot (she's that hot) with some guy. I know it's her, but I'm just not sure if she feels the same way, you know?

How do you know you're not meeting the guy who did the photoshoot?

Just be yourself.

She's so hot that she needs to find a boyfriend on the internet.

Anyone remember that HILARIOUS thread on the honda forums where the guy meets his "model" girlfriend and it turns out to be some really fat girl? He drove like 5 hours then bolted and drove back home. "I left my jacket in the car"

 

[schizoid]

Any female input here?

Another thing...she's Asian. I've never dated an Asian girl before.

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

hahah you're obsessed with Dezign

 

[dolph]

expect the worst, hope for the best. can't do anything else, but try not to be disappointed if it doesn't work out the way you'd hope. after all, you've never met her in real life, the only place it actually matters.

 

[schizoid]

Originally posted by: SackOfAllTrades
hahah you're obsessed with Dezign

DING DING DING!!!!! WE HAVE A WINNER!

Finally.

Seriously people...you guys are slow.

I was hoping this would last long enough so she would see it...but whatever.

GOOD JOB SackOfAllTrades! You get a cookie!

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

WOOHOO! *does the Snoopy dance.

 

[Shaftatplanetquake]

All this means to me is that Sackofalltrades is just as obsessed as you are.

Gotta give it to you guys though, she is ultra hot.

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake
All this means to me is that Sackofalltrades is just as obsessed as you are.

Gotta give it to you guys though, she is ultra hot.

haha geez, don't confuse observation with obsession

anyway, why should I go for someone over the internet when I just go back to UCI and pick up IRL dozens of Dezign-like chicks? plus I live miles away from Rowland Heights...more slutty Asians there too

So ya, if anyone wants to go hit up Asian honies with me, just let me know.

 

[schizoid]

Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake
All this means to me is that Sackofalltrades is just as obsessed as you are.

Gotta give it to you guys though, she is ultra hot.

No, see, the joke is that this whole thing was about her, and that it's not true (that's the key part. Remember that). Notice how I slowly gave away more hints about it being her the longer you guys didn't get it? Sigh.

Yeah.

Well, I'm more obsessed with cookies than her, although I'm sure she's a k-rad person.

I figured you guy'd be all over this one.

I WANT MY COOKIES.

 

[Shaftatplanetquake]

Originally posted by: SackOfAllTrades

Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake
All this means to me is that Sackofalltrades is just as obsessed as you are.

Gotta give it to you guys though, she is ultra hot.

haha geez, don't confuse observation with obsession

anyway, why should I go for someone over the internet when I just go back to UCI and pick up IRL dozens of Dezign-like chicks? plus I live miles away from Rowland Heights...more slutty Asians there too

So ya, if anyone wants to go hit up Asian honies with me, just let me know.

Just fedex some of em out in a small box. I'm all the way over on the east coast.

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake

Originally posted by: SackOfAllTrades

Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake
All this means to me is that Sackofalltrades is just as obsessed as you are.

Gotta give it to you guys though, she is ultra hot.

haha geez, don't confuse observation with obsession

anyway, why should I go for someone over the internet when I just go back to UCI and pick up IRL dozens of Dezign-like chicks? plus I live miles away from Rowland Heights...more slutty Asians there too

So ya, if anyone wants to go hit up Asian honies with me, just let me know.

Just fedex some of em out in a small box. I'm all the way over on the east coast.

haha, i'll lose an arm and a leg on weight...make-up etc etc