YAGT: Not quite, but intresting to see opinions of others

Monkey muppet

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Sorry to dissapoint all you looking for a story to make sacastic remarks, insults, etc, etc.

This is more out of curiosity; I'm intrested in someone who I wouldn't normally consider (I though she was a lot younger than she is).

Irrespective of metal maturity, knowledge and experiance what age limits (upper and lower) would you prefer when interested in a possible relationship.

Personnaly I would say 4 years younger though to 6 years older (I'm 25, BTW) - however this girl is 9 years older. Eve nthough she only looks 3 years older than me.

Before you start bashing, insulting, etc, etc; I know age isn't ment to be a concern if the minds and hearts meet, and just asking what your 'preferance' would be
 

Koing

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Go for it dude.

If theres grass on the field PLAY BALL...(even though most women wax or shave :p)

If your younger you guys will be more suited anyway. Men of the same age as women usually die off earlier. This way if you guys get married and stay the long haul you even up the time before you die...

I'd go about 4yrs younger depending on the girl...

Koign
 

Kadarin

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It could work (you 25, her 34), but it's certainly not a sure thing. I'm 36, and would certainly not want a long-term relationship with a girl age 25, nor a woman of age 45. I think my limits right now are about 30-40.
 

Koing

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Oh yeah she'll be wanting kids sometime soon.

After the age of 30 or so, the womens eggs are of a much lesser quality then when she was in her 15-28 age range.

She may not want kids then you are lucky for now. But do you want kids? if so she may not be able to give them to you at her age for when you do want them. It can be done and often does. But just something to bare in mind if has her heart set on kids int he next few years.

Koing
 

yllus

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Your age = X
Minimum acceptable age of female = Y

X / 2 + 7 = Y

25 / 2 + 7 = 19.5
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: cobalt
Originally posted by: flyboy84
FWB?

Friends with benefits?

Yeah... her daughter was actually the same age as me, and seemed a little bitter about it at first (but older women tend to play less stupid BS games than young girls). Her son was two years older than me and was cool with it.
 

Brian23

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: cobalt
Originally posted by: flyboy84
FWB?

Friends with benefits?

Yeah... her daughter was actually the same age as me, and seemed a little bitter about it at first (but older women tend to play less stupid BS games than young girls). Her son was two years older than me and was cool with it.


wow, just wow. I can't believe you let her children know you were banging her when they're the same age as you.
 

olds

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My wife is 6 years older than me. The only thing that crossed my mind is that she will probably retire before me and we will have to wait to both be retired at the same time (travel. etc.).
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: Brian23
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: cobalt
Originally posted by: flyboy84
FWB?

Friends with benefits?

Yeah... her daughter was actually the same age as me, and seemed a little bitter about it at first (but older women tend to play less stupid BS games than young girls). Her son was two years older than me and was cool with it.


wow, just wow. I can't believe you let her children know you were banging her when they're the same age as you.

We didn't run around shouting it, but they're not idiots.
 

Monkey muppet

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Originally posted by: Koing
Oh yeah she'll be wanting kids sometime soon.

After the age of 30 or so, the womens eggs are of a much lesser quality then when she was in her 15-28 age range.

She may not want kids then you are lucky for now. But do you want kids? if so she may not be able to give them to you at her age for when you do want them. It can be done and often does. But just something to bare in mind if has her heart set on kids int he next few years.

Koing

To be brutaly honest - she can't have kids - so Children aren't on the cards.

I do have to say that there are very few responces with the upper and lower preferance limits (quickly worked out as 1 post per 15 views - this must be a record!!)
 

Pepsei

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in some asian country it is a stigma for a guy to go with older woman, they call it young borhter doing the older sister kind of love tryst. so most of them end up getting a room at some motel, and burn a pot of coal to kill themselves. yes for real, coal.
 

iroast

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why not just date her for a while and see how you feel? if the age difference keeps popping up in your head every so often, perhaps it's better to stop? don't take your sweet time coming up with a decision though.
 

Calin

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Originally posted by: Brian23
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: cobalt
Originally posted by: flyboy84
FWB?

Friends with benefits?

Yeah... her daughter was actually the same age as me, and seemed a little bitter about it at first (but older women tend to play less stupid BS games than young girls). Her son was two years older than me and was cool with it.


wow, just wow. I can't believe you let her children know you were banging her when they're the same age as you.

It's ok, they should have over 18 years :D
 

Calin

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But I think it is ok - but think that menopause hits women at around 45-50 years (I think). That is 15 years from now, and you will be 40 by then
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: Calin
But I think it is ok - but think that menopause hits women at around 45-50 years (I think). That is 15 years from now, and you will be 40 by then

Just in time to trade her in for a younger model!