So here's the abridged as much as possible version: I meet this girl at this group I joined. I invite her out to a book reading but instead we end up chatting it up for a few hours. It wasn't planned as a date but I think turned into one due to my charming ways (that's sarcasm if you've ever read my YAGT threads). Anyways, one thing let to another and she ends up at my place to watch the spongebob movie. She's lying on my bed and we start cuddling a bit - arms wrapped around her sorta stuff. The line "I just got this amazing new pillow that you have to try!" actually worked and got her to lay down and get comfortable.. anyway, we spoon and hold hands for a good hour and i try to kiss her - she says "this is only our first date, we're moving too fast..." i slow down and go back to just holding her hands.. the awkwardness is the good night hug felt kinda weak - like she wanted to leave in a rush... now, i could be looking into things too much but, well, most people our age screw on the first date so kissing is such a minor thing to me.. chase this girl and ask her for a 2nd date or move on?