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- Dec 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Hand in your man-card right now, because you apparently cannot handle women/girls
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Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Hand in your man-card right now, because you apparently cannot handle women/girls
Originally posted by: Nimloth
Originally posted by: mobiblu
Originally posted by: davestar
Originally posted by: Nimloth
- met a girl when she was 18 and a virgin
thanks for the info, but what does this have to do with anything?
so is she still a virgin?
no
Originally posted by: ricochet
Originally posted by: crownjules
Originally posted by: ricochet
Originally posted by: Mo0o
seems like a couple of assholes screwing each other
Yep. I don't even see the "nice guy" in the equation at all, just a bunch of @holes who lack commitment.
Lack commitment...how? He dated two girls, what's wrong with that? Dating != commitment. When you're dating, you're still figuring things out.
As a general rule for dating, you date only one at a time. That is implied and expected. Any exception to that requires explanation upfront and full disclosure of your intention. The OP and his girlfriend hid their side relationship and disclosed said relationship after the fact. That is cheating period.
You can date around, "figure things out" and learn to be committed to the person you're dating. That's part of the maturing process.
Originally posted by: yowolabi
No, then when do the rules come into effect? I'll answer. When one of the people dating talks to the other person and ask them if they want to be in a committed relationship. If the other person says "yes" then it's expected that all other dates will immediately be canceled. Dating does not equal a relationship. Dating is figuring out if you want to be in a relationship.
Once the relationship talk has been had, then it is considered cheating to go out with someone else, not before. You're awfully naive if you really do expect a girl to stop dating completely from the minute she agrees to date you.
Originally posted by: Mo0o
seems like a couple of assholes screwing each other
Originally posted by: davestar
Originally posted by: Nimloth
- met a girl when she was 18 and a virgin
thanks for the info, but what does this have to do with anything?