I've been dating this girl for about 8 months. For a while things were going really well. I was already planning on moving to another nearby city to go to school, and we ended up deciding to get a place there together, as she was going to attend the same university.
Well, since that decision, I've pretty much realized that she's not exactly what I'm looking for. I like her, I think she's a great person, and I care about her, but during conversations about things that are important to me, things haven't been so great. (I am an atheist, and a similar outlook would be ideal in a partner, but I am willing to give it a shot with someone who may have religious beliefs, but it would honestly take a lot of other positives. This is just what I want.)
That isn't the only issue, of course... I honestly just don't have a lot of fun with her anymore. I'm pretty sure that most of my feelings of happiness early in the relationship were sort of rebound-related, as I had ended a bad relationship a couple of months prior to dating her.
But basically... the moving date is a week from now. I'm debating between these choices:
1) Ending things now, although that would be really upsetting to her given the short notice and that she really likes me.
2) Telling her that I want to continue to see her, but I cannot move in with her and would want an uncommitted relationship in which I could date other people.
3) Giving it a while longer and moving in anyway, and if things don't work out, figure things out from there as far as living situations.
Well, since that decision, I've pretty much realized that she's not exactly what I'm looking for. I like her, I think she's a great person, and I care about her, but during conversations about things that are important to me, things haven't been so great. (I am an atheist, and a similar outlook would be ideal in a partner, but I am willing to give it a shot with someone who may have religious beliefs, but it would honestly take a lot of other positives. This is just what I want.)
That isn't the only issue, of course... I honestly just don't have a lot of fun with her anymore. I'm pretty sure that most of my feelings of happiness early in the relationship were sort of rebound-related, as I had ended a bad relationship a couple of months prior to dating her.
But basically... the moving date is a week from now. I'm debating between these choices:
1) Ending things now, although that would be really upsetting to her given the short notice and that she really likes me.
2) Telling her that I want to continue to see her, but I cannot move in with her and would want an uncommitted relationship in which I could date other people.
3) Giving it a while longer and moving in anyway, and if things don't work out, figure things out from there as far as living situations.
. You did follow the rules however. All except one, PICS!
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