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YAGT: Need advice

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Okay, so this morning I went to my prom after party. It went from midnight to around 6 AM. Towards the end (4:30ish), I realized "You know what, I am not going to see 95% of the people here again, I might as well try my luck with all the girls." SO after failing a few times (I hear it builds character 😛), I go up to someone I have known for a long time and am like "Hey, wanna dance." She says yeah, and we are dancing. Eventually all of her friends come over, and I am dancing with like 6 girls at once. Now, another song comes on, and this one girl comes up to me and we start dancing one on one. We were both smiling and having fun and whatnot. My question is, do you think I should ask someone for that girls screen name/phone number and ask her out or something? Or should I go about it in another manner? Or, do you think I am better off asking the original girl I was dancing with, who said yes to dance?

Note: I did not go to prom, didn't think $400 on myself when I had no date was worth it (100 for ticket, 100 for tux, 200 for limo or so I am told). THe after party is sponsored by my school, and anyone in the graduating class is allowed to come whether or not you went to prom (if you went to prom, your dates are allowed as well if they are not seniors/go to another school).
 
You're asking us who to ask out? Do you have any interest in either of them or are you just going to ask them out "because"? If you were interested you should have asked one of them out already. 😕
 
MichaelD had an answer to your question a vew months ago. It had someting to do with never, ever, ever going to get laid. Perhaps someone can come up with it. 😛
 
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
 
Originally posted by: Phocas
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
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Well, I already know one of theirs (the girl who said yes to dancing) cause we have known each other for a while. I just recently have become interested in her that "other" way.
 
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
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Well, I already know one of theirs (the girl who said yes to dancing) cause we have known each other for a while. I just recently have become interested in her that "other" way.
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Then call and ask her out, forget the other chick. It sounds like you havent been with very many women, you should just start of with the chick you have a better chance with.
 
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
If they aren't best friends, ask them both out. It's not like you're proposing marriage or something.
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Hrmm, interesting. I know they are friends, but I dont know how close they are.
 
Originally posted by: Phocas
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
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Well, I already know one of theirs (the girl who said yes to dancing) cause we have known each other for a while. I just recently have become interested in her that "other" way.
Click to expand...

Then call and ask her out, forget the other chick. It sounds like you havent been with very many women, you should just start of with the chick you have a better chance with.
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You're right on the not being with very many (try one 🙁, and not sexually). I am trying to build up confidence and everything before college rolls around so I wont be a complete tard when it comes to girls.
 
The first "dates" don't have to be hot and heavy, just take them out for lunch or something. That way, you can plead ignorance if they get pissy about you seeing the other one.
 
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
Click to expand...
Well, I already know one of theirs (the girl who said yes to dancing) cause we have known each other for a while. I just recently have become interested in her that "other" way.
Click to expand...

Then call and ask her out, forget the other chick. It sounds like you havent been with very many women, you should just start of with the chick you have a better chance with.
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You're right on the not being with very many (try one 🙁, and not sexually). I am trying to build up confidence and everything before college rolls around so I wont be a complete tard when it comes to girls.
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Just ask the one chick out and remember, be confident. It sounds like you tried to build up some balls at that party. Carry that on, chicks dig it.
 
Originally posted by: Phocas
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
Originally posted by: Marauder911
Originally posted by: Phocas
So you didnt ask any of them for a phone #? Asking after the fact is lame IMO.....
Click to expand...
Well, I already know one of theirs (the girl who said yes to dancing) cause we have known each other for a while. I just recently have become interested in her that "other" way.
Click to expand...

Then call and ask her out, forget the other chick. It sounds like you havent been with very many women, you should just start of with the chick you have a better chance with.
Click to expand...
You're right on the not being with very many (try one 🙁, and not sexually). I am trying to build up confidence and everything before college rolls around so I wont be a complete tard when it comes to girls.
Click to expand...

Just ask the one chick out and remember, be confident. It sounds like you tried to build up some balls at that party. Carry that on, chicks dig it.
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Yeah, towards the end of the party I was like "fvck it, I have nothing to lose" so I decided to allow my pair to lower. I guess I just gotta follow through like you said.
 
Me, I'd play the jealousy card😉 Take original girl out to lunch, ask her who the second girl was, then mention to the second girl how I got her info😀


But in all seriousness, I'd ask the first girl out to lunch. It seems you've talked to her before so you'll be less nervous.
 
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