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YAGT: My GF's friends don't like me...

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Originally posted by: irishScott
Break up and post it online FTW!!!

Post it online? Why, that would be a total invasion of privacy. :frown:

However, if he happened to have it on his computer, and he was somehow "hacked" and the "hacker" decided to upload it online, that's an ENTIRELY different story. 😛

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: GalvanizedYankee
Originally posted by: yowolabi
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I just found this out and am a little surprised. This will definitely make things more difficult for me. I don't need the extra problems considering I suck with the ladies as it is 🙂

Does she discuss the details of your relationship with her friends? If she does, and her friends hate you, you might as well break up now because your relationship has no future.

QFT!

You are her boy-toy, her tool, her fool.
Girls do this all the time. The majority of women carry this childish behavior into adulthood and sabatog all thier male relationships with it.

Cut & run dude. Leave her stunned. 😛

QFT. I have seen it way too many times even in marriages. It makes me sick.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
don't sweat it. Woman are jealous little creatures. They don't want to see there friend happy with you.
or... they really don't like him because of his attitude / demeanor / actions. :evil:
 
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
don't sweat it. Woman are jealous little creatures. They don't want to see there friend happy with you.
or... they really don't like him because of his attitude / demeanor / actions. :evil:

well then in that case don't sweat it, your not dating her girlfriends too.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
don't sweat it. Woman are jealous little creatures. They don't want to see there friend happy with you.
or... they really don't like him because of his attitude / demeanor / actions. :evil:

well then in that case don't sweat it, your not dating her girlfriends too.
or... that same perception is seen by everyone he meets, not just his gf's friends. :evil:
 
Originally posted by: shadow9d9
Well, my now wife's best friend didn't like me when we went out and probably still doesn't... didn't affect us.

Same here. All of them were college friends and have moved away since we got married anyways, so it doesn't much matter. It was annoying to my wife while we were dating, but I didn't really care.
 
Originally posted by: Walzber813
They will, just be the man. Treat your girl right, when they see the guy your girl see's in you, they'll like you.

Or they'll be even more jealous and try harder to get rid of you.
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I just found this out and am a little surprised. This will definitely make things more difficult for me. I don't need the extra problems considering I suck with the ladies as it is 🙂

Well, what don't they like about you?

Do what I do when that happens, be a total cock to them. If they even hint at disliking you hit them right back with that. It's childish but whatever. It doesn't sound like this is a serious relationship (sorry if it is) so you don't have much to lose.
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I just found this out and am a little surprised. This will definitely make things more difficult for me. I don't need the extra problems considering I suck with the ladies as it is 🙂

Well you kn ow there are other girls in the world...
Truthfully her friends will win out over you...
Move on...
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I just found this out and am a little surprised. This will definitely make things more difficult for me. I don't need the extra problems considering I suck with the ladies as it is 🙂

Congrats, you are "that guy" her friends want to be swooped away from by the other guy she likes.

Don't sweat it, though. That's their problem. If you are making your woman happy, her real friends will recognize it.
 
It's possible some of them are jealous. If you and your gf ever break up, it'll be interesting to see if any of the friends that didn't like you start calling you.
 
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