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YAGT: My friend is being DENIED.

guapo337

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My friend likes this girl quite a bit. She likes him quite a bit as well. They're both very interested in each other. My friend is 16, the girl is 15. The girl's mother knows my friend very well, and knows he's a good kid. In fact, her son is in our grade, and me and my friend are tight with him as well.

Anyways, tonight, me and my gf, him, and her all wanted to hang out together. However, this girl's mom said no. She didnt want her daughter driving with me (I was going to be driving us). So all four of us didn't hang out. My gf and I went out, and my friend and the girl went to her house. Her house is just about the only place her mom will let her go. In fact, her mom told my friend that she doesn't want her daughter dating. When he's at her house, he barely ever is alone with her.

He really likes her, and she really likes him, but without getting to really date, and only seeing each other in a seemingly platonic manner, this potential relationship is unable to bloom.

He's getting denied hardcore.

What to do? Is there anything to do?
 
Easy lie don't tell the mom that she is going out with the guy have her say she is going out with one of her girl friends. Not very hard.
 
Originally posted by: JBTele
Easy lie don't tell the mom that she is going out with the guy have her say she is going out with one of her girl friends. Not very hard.

What a great idea.
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Get over it, she's 15 if her parents don't want her out with a bunch of teenagers then its thier business.
 
Originally posted by: JBTele
Easy lie don't tell the mom that she is going out with the guy have her say she is going out with one of her girl friends. Not very hard.

Lying=bad. She'd find out. He's a good guy. I feel like he's entering the friend zone, involuntarily.

 
You know, sometimes people do things with motivations slightly more noble than your friend getting laid. The mom is one of those people in this case.
 
Originally posted by: Legendary
You know, sometimes people do things with motivations slightly more noble than your friend getting laid. The mom is one of those people in this case.

He doesn't want to get laid! Getting a piece is low on his priority list! However, he cant even spend time alone with her right now, nothing noteworthy can develop!

 
Originally posted by: MegaloManiaK
Originally posted by: JBTele
Easy lie don't tell the mom that she is going out with the guy have her say she is going out with one of her girl friends. Not very hard.

What a great idea.
rolleye.gif


Get over it, she's 15 if her parents don't want her out with a bunch of teenagers then its thier business.

Haha...because 15 isn't a teenager. 😉
 
my post was a joke. Anyways if they guy really likes her tell him to wait it out really liking someone at 15 is very common but its not like it is the end of the world if it doesn't work out.
 
Originally posted by: guapo337
Originally posted by: Legendary
You know, sometimes people do things with motivations slightly more noble than your friend getting laid. The mom is one of those people in this case.

He doesn't want to get laid! Getting a piece is low on his priority list! However, he cant even spend time alone with her right now, nothing noteworthy can develop!

hahah a 15 yr old male NOT wanting to get laid? sure. thats why he wants to spend time alone with her!
 
Yeah she is a little young. Once she is 18 the parents can't get in the way. Tell him to find a new girl or just be patient. That is probably what her mom is looking for.
 
Originally posted by: guapo337
My friend likes this girl quite a bit. She likes him quite a bit as well. They're both very interested in each other. My friend is 16, the girl is 15. The girl's mother knows my friend very well, and knows he's a good kid. In fact, her son is in our grade, and me and my friend are tight with him as well.

Anyways, tonight, me and my gf, him, and her all wanted to hang out together. However, this girl's mom said no. She didnt want her daughter driving with me (I was going to be driving us). So all four of us didn't hang out. My gf and I went out, and my friend and the girl went to her house. Her house is just about the only place her mom will let her go. In fact, her mom told my friend that she doesn't want her daughter dating. When he's at her house, he barely ever is alone with her.

He really likes her, and she really likes him, but without getting to really date, and only seeing each other in a seemingly platonic manner, this potential relationship is unable to bloom.

He's getting denied hardcore.

What to do? Is there anything to do?

the mom is not being satisfied, take care of her first then the road will be clear.
 
Originally posted by: Legendary
You know, sometimes people do things with motivations slightly more noble than your friend getting laid. The mom is one of those people in this case.

 
Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis
She's 15 and her mom doesn't want her dating? Does she plan to arrange a marriage for her or what?

In general people under the age of 16 aren't mature enough to be dating as they aren't responsible enough to make good decisions and need supervision in most activities involving the opposite sex. Just because her mom doesn't want her dating at 15 doesn't mean she is going to arrange her marriage. I in fact agree that if the parent doesn't feel the child is mature enough at 15 to date then she shouldn't be dating. In fact if the parents object they can prevent dating until 18.
 
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