YAGT --more of a survey -- How much is control an issue in relationships?

ajayjuneja

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Wanting peoples takes on this issue... I used to never think about this as an issue, now it's occuring to me that it is an issue.
 

zCypher

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Aug 18, 2002
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Some women are very controlive. Luckily I seem to end up with women who aren't starving for control. heh
 

fs5

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Originally posted by: ajayjuneja
Wanting peoples takes on this issue... I used to never think about this as an issue, now it's occuring to me that it is an issue.
just let her think she has control and all will be well.
 

psydancerqt

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share the control... hasnt been an issue since i broke up with my bf! he let me wear the pants too much!
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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I don't think there should be control... as in, "Hey, go do this, go do that." As for decisions, both should make them together and understand the point of view for the choice.
 

BD231

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Don't let someone control you in a relationship, you'll explode at some point then get blamed for the breakup for something that wasn't your fault.

It IS your fault for letting yourself live like that though.
 

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