YAGT: major quandry

Alex

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just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being a guy? ;) :)

ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:
 
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I thought you already had a girlfriend? (Although I may be remembering something from a really long time ago, or otherwise a different poster entirely)

In any case, I am not qualified to give advice or even an opinion in this area. I've had one girlfriend, it was two years ago, and it didn't last all too long. :p
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: franguinho
just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being gay? ;) :)

ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:


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ribbon13

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Wow.... just wow...

Well, honestly, if she's that dense, I'd stick it out. I lot of assholes would just hit and leave, so if you try and stay with her for a while, she's probably better off than she would have been.
 

Aquaman

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Originally posted by: franguinho
just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being a guy? ;) :)

ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:

Your thinking with your other head.......... nothing wrong with that.......... but I would not do it since it's going to be her first time. She may stalk you dude ;)

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: ribbon13
Wow.... just wow...

Well, honestly, if she's that dense, I'd stick it in. I lot of assholes would just hit and leave, so if you try and stay with her for a while, she's probably better off than she would have been.

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Alex

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Originally posted by: SynthDude2001
I thought you already had a girlfriend? (Although I may be remembering something from a really long time ago, or otherwise a different poster entirely)

In any case, I am not qualified to give advice or even an opinion in this area. I've had one girlfriend, it was two years ago, and it didn't last all too long. :p

hmm i DID have a gf that i posted the odd time on here about but we broke things off over a year ago... :)

Originally posted by: ribbon13
Wow.... just wow...

Well, honestly, if she's that dense, I'd stick it out. I lot of assholes would just hit and leave, so if you try and stay with her for a while, she's probably better off than she would have been.

lol that's what my buddies tell me... like she's not stupid but when we talk sometimes i realize that we're in different worlds or something like she doesn't get any more subtle jokes stuff like that...

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Sure. Just don't dump her immediately after, because that's mean.


:thumbsup: yeah like i said i really don't want to hurt her :)

oh and dug777's corrections almost made me spill my coffee :p :D
 

Pepsei

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You are a 1/2 scum... but most of us are made up of scummy materials anway.

pics?

 

Hammer

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you've never heard the expression "hit it and then quit it"? how do you think that came about? it wasn't webster's.
 

Cuda1447

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If shes nice and cute and you enjoy spending time with her, than do your thing and go from there. You may not marry the girl, but that doesn't mean you have to break up with her right now. Date for fun, and when you start to dis-like spending time with her than break it off.
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: franguinho
Originally posted by: SynthDude2001
I thought you already had a girlfriend? (Although I may be remembering something from a really long time ago, or otherwise a different poster entirely)

In any case, I am not qualified to give advice or even an opinion in this area. I've had one girlfriend, it was two years ago, and it didn't last all too long. :p

hmm i DID have a gf that i posted the odd time on here about but we broke things off over a year ago... :)

Originally posted by: ribbon13
Wow.... just wow...

Well, honestly, if she's that dense, I'd stick it out. I lot of assholes would just hit and leave, so if you try and stay with her for a while, she's probably better off than she would have been.

lol that's what my buddies tell me... like she's not stupid but when we talk sometimes i realize that we're in different worlds or something like she doesn't get any more subtle jokes stuff like that...

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Sure. Just don't dump her immediately after, because that's mean.


:thumbsup: yeah like i said i really don't want to hurt her :)

oh and dug777's corrections almost made me spill my coffee :p :D

i try my best :D

hit it my son :beer:
 

J Heartless Slick

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Originally posted by: franguinho
just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being a guy? ;) :)




ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:



How is she going to feel towards men after you dump her?
 

Kristi2k

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That's ignorant, I would just leave her now. Why not think of someone else's feelings besides yours?
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: Kristi2k
That's ignorant, I would just leave her now. Why not think of someone else's feelings besides yours?

sez the biatch...
 

Alex

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Originally posted by: J Heartless Slick
Originally posted by: franguinho
just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being a guy? ;) :)




ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:



How is she going to feel towards men after you dump her?

well.... she's never had a serious bf before, just lil flings (which explains the whole virginity thing :)) i hope she doesn't get too disillusioned but better me than someone else right? :D :evil:
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: franguinho
just wondering! :D

uh there's this guy i know... :roll: lol ok fine, its me
I'm goin out with this girl and she's nice and funny and all but kinda dense as in, not the smartest peanut in the turd... :p we don't have thaaat much in common but she loves talking and i find myself just listening to her a lot of the time we're together...

now, normally i would have broken things off i guess cause i'm not that interested but we're pretty close to havin sex (she's a virgin) and i'm trying to stick it out... i don't want to hurt her though, but at the same time the prospect of p00n is pretty appealing at this point (been like 2 months lol)

am i a total asshole or just being a guy? ;) :)

ps - i'm not planning on dumping her as soon as i get laid, but if things don't pick up then maybe shortly after, depending on how good she is in the sack :evil:

um so stick her already and get it overwith....
 

Alex

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Originally posted by: dug777
Originally posted by: Kristi2k
That's ignorant, I would just leave her now. Why not think of someone else's feelings besides yours?

sez the biatch...

bwahahahhahah :D

i was waiting for the first outraged female reply... :p

well i personally think she will enjoy the sex very much, so, in a way, i look at this as helping her, because i'm trying to be nice about it and it't not written in stone that i'm gonna dump her immediately after!!! read the PS in the first post! ;)

k im just being an ass... i dont know why i guess because in the past i've had my heart broken by girlS and at this point in my life its all about me... sorry!
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: franguinho
Originally posted by: dug777
Originally posted by: Kristi2k
That's ignorant, I would just leave her now. Why not think of someone else's feelings besides yours?

sez the biatch...

bwahahahhahah :D

i was waiting for the first outraged female reply... :p

well i personally think she will enjoy the sex very much, so, in a way, i look at this as helping her, because i'm trying to be nice about it and it't not written in stone that i'm gonna dump her immediately after!!! read the PS in the first post! ;)

k im just being an ass... i dont know why i guess because in the past i've had my heart broken by girlS and at this point in my life its all about me... sorry!

you rule :beer:

:laugh:
 

PingSpike

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Meh. She'll live. And really some one else will come along and do it sooner or later anyway like you said. The only question is whether you get laid, or some other scumbag.

Tell her she will still be a virgin if you slip it in the back.