YAGT: Lunch date with girl today......

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: sandmanwake
I think you should change your forum name to triforceofyagt.

lol :thumbsup:

as long as I don't get as bad as freedomsbeat I am content.

 

[Stunt]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: Stunt

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: CarlKillerMiller
I feel like you've got to address your problems of self-confidence. I mean, this was a really, really clear "ask me on a second date".

On the other hand, you could just be bragging about your lunch date.

Definitely not bragging, just want to make sure I am reading her right.

Ask her out again...
Wait a couple days though.

I emailed her back saying I had a good time also and that I would talk to her soon.

Works.
After next date, try to communicate with phone.
Email is very impersonal.

 

[CarlKillerMiller]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: Stunt

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: CarlKillerMiller
I feel like you've got to address your problems of self-confidence. I mean, this was a really, really clear "ask me on a second date".

On the other hand, you could just be bragging about your lunch date.

Definitely not bragging, just want to make sure I am reading her right.

Ask her out again...
Wait a couple days though.

I emailed her back saying I had a good time also and that I would talk to her soon.

That might have been a bad move. Not providing a specific date, or even an offer of one (I'd like to see you again soon) sounds kinda noncommittal. Damage control would be to wait a couple of days, then email her asking her to lunch/coffee on a specific day.

Cheers!

 

[KarmaPolice]

Originally posted by: CarlKillerMiller

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: Stunt

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: CarlKillerMiller
I feel like you've got to address your problems of self-confidence. I mean, this was a really, really clear "ask me on a second date".

On the other hand, you could just be bragging about your lunch date.

Definitely not bragging, just want to make sure I am reading her right.

Ask her out again...
Wait a couple days though.

I emailed her back saying I had a good time also and that I would talk to her soon.

That might have been a bad move. Not providing a specific date, or even an offer of one (I'd like to see you again soon) sounds kinda noncommittal. Damage control would be to wait a couple of days, then email her asking her to lunch/coffee on a specific day.

Cheers!

I would say go for a dinner date instead

 

[Stunt]

Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
I would say go for a dinner date instead

I wouldn't
Something more casual; maybe she'll be less shy.

 

[irishScott]

Originally posted by: doze
She wouldn't have contacted you today unless she wanted another date. Give her a call tomorrow.

 

[Regs]

I take girls out on lunch dates all the time. Most of them all ready have b/f's lol. So it's mostly a friendly gesture than a date. Which seems like what you got yourself into. Looks like you are going to be friends for awhile as she seems shy or cautious.

And don't worry if she drops the "I have a b/f" bomb on you. Girls dump their moron b/fs as soon as they meet someone new anyway. Though in most cases like that you end up being friends for months or even years before anything happens.

Plant your seeds and hope one grows into a plant. Don't get caught up on one girl.

 

[imported_vr6]

Originally posted by: Stunt

Originally posted by: 50cent1228

Originally posted by: Stunt
The quiet ones are the horniest ones...

:beer:

I've been with 2 reverend's daughters and God knows how many catholic chicks...

I am so going to hell...

QFT.

My ex was a church going, bible studying, innocent, religious girl.

but when we are alone.. :Q

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Drakkon
shes actually saying:

"Why didnt you invite me back to your place for dinner tonight? you really should have. I mean you could've gotten in my pants"

quoted for truth.

You blew the first date, now take her on a second one and seal the deal.

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: Stunt
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Works.
After next date, try to communicate with phone.
Email is very impersonal.

Agreed x 100. Also true for IM, myspace et al.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

bump for working folk

 

[j00fek]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
It went ok, she seemed a little shy. She is a teacher, petite and cute.
There were some awkward pauses and I felt like I was directing most of the conversation. I was undecided whether I would call her for a second date when I just received an email from her.

She wrote:
I just wanted to thank you for lunch today. I had a nice time. Talk to you soon!

Does this mean she is interested in me or just thanking me for lunch?

just thanking you for lunch. how does this mean i want to dat y ou? get with it

 

[UncleWai]

Originally posted by: tfinch2
Wow your e-penis is so huge. You went to lunch with someone that has a vagina, atleast you think she does!

WOW jealous much?



OP, you got it

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: RichardE
Sounds like she wants another date soon. Sounds like she wants to take it realllly slow though.

Agreed.

OP, was it called a date, or were you guys just hanging out? Because there is a difference in a girls mind.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

This was actually the first time we met in person. So the point was to actually meet each other and see if we clicked.

 

[Alex]

Originally posted by: doze
She wouldn't have contacted you today unless she wanted another date. Give her a call tomorrow.

+1

 

[Triforceofcourage]

how long to wait before I call?

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
how long to wait before I call?

you don't. Call her and set up another date.

just make sure you have some kissing/fooling around this time. If you didn't kiss her on the 1st date you had darn well make a move on the 2nd.

 

[Aharami]

call her tonight

 

[Manuwell]

She sounds polite

 

[MaxDepth]

She must be southern. I once knew a southern girl who wouldn't go to orgies, not because she wouldn't enjoy them, but because of all the thank you cards she'd have to write.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: Aharami
call her tonight

Isn't that too soon? I just saw her yesterday......

 

[SP33Demon]

I sincerely hope you didn't pay for her.

 

[sygyzy]

You guys are very positive. I wouldn't be that excited about that email.

 

[sash1]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: Aharami
call her tonight

Isn't that too soon? I just saw her yesterday......

wait 2+ days, if she doesn't call or try to set up a second date, then call her and ask her out again, something casual to get her talking.