YAGT: It's over.

Zugzwang152

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I swear to god, I meet the nicest people, have a blast, and then I self-implode and do the stupidest, most selfish, idiotic things and ruin everything.

This time I almost made it to 2 years. Not very long for you old-timers, but significant for me. I really feel empty right now, as she was pretty much my best and only friend too. I'm not really sure what happened to all the people I used to hang out with... they kind of just... disappeared?

I'm feeling pretty fscking ****** now.


No pics. Flame away, I don't really give a damn.

edit 1: (what happened)
t's been a tough week. We decided she would think about whether she wanted to work on it, and get back to me.

Basically she was ready to tell me she wanted to work on our relationship together a few days ago, but before she could I started getting emo and ****** on her, so she never got the chance.

edit 2: (what actually happened)
This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Tylanner
2 years is a long time by any standard

did you stray on her?

It's been a tough week. We decided she would think about whether she wanted to work on it, and get back to me.

Basically she was ready to tell me she wanted to work on our relationship together a few days ago, but before she could I started getting emo and ****** on her, so she never got the chance.
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What happened?

This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.
 

Photog

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Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: Tylanner
2 years is a long time by any standard

did you stray on her?

It's been a tough week. We decided she would think about whether she wanted to work on it, and get back to me.

Basically she was ready to tell me she wanted to work on our relationship together a few days ago, but before she could I started getting emo and ****** on her, so she never got the chance.

So...what actualy happened?
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: Tylanner
her excuses?

well, the first time, she failed to tell me she was tired, so it seemed like a blow-off. The second time she got a 24-hour stomach flu type bug, and the third time someone she was giving a ride to got sick, and so had to be taken home and cared for.
 

maddogchen

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Doesn't sound like an its over type thing for a 2 year relationship.

Buy her flowers and apologize
 

MustangSVT

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Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
I swear to god, I meet the nicest people, have a blast, and then I self-implode and do the stupidest, most selfish, idiotic things and ruin everything.

This time I almost made it to 2 years. Not very long for you old-timers, but significant for me. I really feel empty right now, as she was pretty much my best and only friend too. I'm not really sure what happened to all the people I used to hang out with... they kind of just... disappeared?

I'm feeling pretty fscking ****** now.


No pics. Flame away, I don't really give a damn.

edit 1: (what happened)
t's been a tough week. We decided she would think about whether she wanted to work on it, and get back to me.

Basically she was ready to tell me she wanted to work on our relationship together a few days ago, but before she could I started getting emo and ****** on her, so she never got the chance.

edit 2: (what actually happened)
This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

tell me you actually met her in person?
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: MustangSVT
Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
I swear to god, I meet the nicest people, have a blast, and then I self-implode and do the stupidest, most selfish, idiotic things and ruin everything.

This time I almost made it to 2 years. Not very long for you old-timers, but significant for me. I really feel empty right now, as she was pretty much my best and only friend too. I'm not really sure what happened to all the people I used to hang out with... they kind of just... disappeared?

I'm feeling pretty fscking ****** now.


No pics. Flame away, I don't really give a damn.

edit 1: (what happened)
t's been a tough week. We decided she would think about whether she wanted to work on it, and get back to me.

Basically she was ready to tell me she wanted to work on our relationship together a few days ago, but before she could I started getting emo and ****** on her, so she never got the chance.

edit 2: (what actually happened)
This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

tell me you actually met her in person?

at what point did you get the assumption this was anything but a real relationship?
 

DarkKnight69

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Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What happened?

This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

BWAHAHA, PWNED by his own emo self...No sympathy bro!!
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What happened?

This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

BWAHAHA, PWNED by his own emo self...No sympathy bro!!

not really asking for any. although trolling was something i wasnt really expecting either.
 

DarkKnight69

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Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What happened?

This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

BWAHAHA, PWNED by his own emo self...No sympathy bro!!

not really asking for any. although trolling was something i wasnt really expecting either.

You should have expected it, if you cared for her you would have understood the situation and took into account her needs rather then just whining. I think that you need to step back and reasses what you want before you go and talk her into taking you back...
 

Zugzwang152

Lifer
Oct 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: Zugzwang152
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What happened?

This past week, we made several plans to meet. Something unexpected, but understandable, happened 3 times to ruin the plans. Instead of being understanding, I decided to be emo and whine.

BWAHAHA, PWNED by his own emo self...No sympathy bro!!

not really asking for any. although trolling was something i wasnt really expecting either.

You should have expected it, if you cared for her you would have understood the situation and took into account her needs rather then just whining. I think that you need to step back and reasses what you want before you go and talk her into taking you back...

I never expect trolling, especially since I don't post random, useless threads, but you do have a point. Trust me, I already tried talking her out of it, but oh well. ****** happens.