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pclstyle

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Apr 14, 2004
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... need more material before commencing crucifixion


i'm so prepped to keystyle the sh!t out of you, too :) cause i'm gangster like that
 
slightlyhuman

slightlyhuman

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: guoziming
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doh.

what college does she plan to go to?
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I don't know why that seems to matter unless you're wanting to know to throw the obligatory "i'm going there college" or something atot would say.

we both go to a community college in our town.
 
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KarmaPolice

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Jun 24, 2004
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Hrmmm,....She seems to be very honest which is a huge plus. It seems that you are the on that isnt saying wahts on your mind as much as she is. As soon as she told you she wanted to go back to just dating you pretty thought in your head that it was over, but you said nothing about what you wre thinking to her.

My advice( not that I know what I am doing either ) would be to tell her how much you like her, what you enjoy about her, that you dont want her seeing other people, and that its ok to be officially dating someone and STILL hang out with your friends without the SO being around. Is she not comfortable with dating someone and not seeing them for 2 days?
 
Ika

Ika

Lifer
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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Hrmmm,....She seems to be very honest which is a huge plus. It seems that you are the on that isnt saying wahts on your mind as much as she is. As soon as she told you she wanted to go back to just dating you pretty thought in your head that it was over, but you said nothing about what you wre thinking to her.

My advice( not that I know what I am doing either ) would be to tell her how much you like her, what you enjoy about her, that you dont want her seeing other people, and that its ok to be officially dating someone and STILL hang out with your friends without the SO being around. Is she not comfortable with dating someone and not seeing them for 2 days?
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also, continue to ask her what's wrong. there's something jamming the cogs in this relationship and you need to find out what it is. express your mind and don't be fake.
 
SearchMaster

SearchMaster

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Jun 6, 2002
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She's 19, and about to make a huge life change (college).

My recommendation - give her space and date other people. For God's sake, not anybody she knows. No offense, but this is why people should not get married before 25 - you change too much between 18-25. She sounds like a great girl, and she's very cute from the other thread. I hope things work out but you and I both know they probably won't.
 
Pepsei

Pepsei

Lifer
Dec 14, 2001
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i want to help.... i really do... but it's the point of no return for you if you accept... you have to sign your name in blood....
 
slightlyhuman

slightlyhuman

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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welp. she called back after i called today. i missed it though. when i got off she answered and said she was watching the notebook. she said she would call me after it was over. she did and we talked for about 20 minutes. she's real sick right now so i might drop a get well soon card off just to be cute. i like her a lot but i'm not going to call her as much or text. the next time we hang out will show me whether or not she's still into me. i'm not going to be friends with this girl because that will pretty much destroy any hope in the future.

i'll call her tomorrow and see what's up. if she didn't want to talk to me i don't think she would have called back. we will see...


thanks jntdietz, let me see if i still have your number from that one PM.

another note, i don't really think i should tell her how i feel due to the fact i think it might scare her off maybe? i feel like she picked up on that i am more into her than she is me by the "title" thing but i'm not sure. i'm just going to play it by ear. if we don't make it then it's going to suck because i usually always try to upgrade from my last gf. my ex of 2 years is smoking but this one is beautiful in so many ways.

word:heart:
 
Nebor

Nebor

Lifer
Jun 24, 2003
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A girl who says she doesn't have sex before marriage means she's not having sex with YOU until you get married.

There are plenty of women out there, and at age 21 you shouldn't even have a girlfriend. You should be shopping around and finding out what you like and who you are. She should be doing the same.

Date, have one night stands, have fun. Follow Leykis 101 for the most part and you'll turn out fine.
 
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OneOfTheseDays

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Jan 15, 2000
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I can tell you from my own experience, which isn't great mind you, that you should probably stop seeing this girl and move on. Unfortunately I've been in a few too many crappy relationships, and in a way I'm glad because now i can see the red flags well in advance. This girl is throwing up massive red flags and I don't think you are aware of them at all because of how you feel about her.

In short, she's only 19 years old and is simply not ready for a mature relationship. Move on and cut your losses. If things are meant to be between you two then you will find each other when the time is right.
 
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saymyname

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Jun 9, 2006
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Just read this. Total waste of your time. Drop her like a hot potato and be straight with her. Tell her she's a head case and when she grows up she can call you for a booty call.
 
sygyzy

sygyzy

Lifer
Oct 21, 2000
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I can't believe I read that whole thing. I remember the picture thread. She is hot for sure and sounds like a fun person but I agree. Drop it. You obviously don't need help getting a girl. And you are 21. I do appreciate that you can spell and use proper grammar. It made the length more bearable.
 
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