well. there's this girl. we've been talking a lot since the middle of swim season (december or so). and after swim season ended, we started talking a LOT more, hanging out. well anyways, we've kissed and stuff, talk a lot, and things are ten times better than anything i ever had with my ex-gf (i know i shouldnt compare but it's so damn hard..) so anyways, everyone knows about us liking each other and whatnot, but nothing has ever been made "official" per se. it's obvious that were interested in each other. is there any need to actually talk about stuff? i've heard she's "confused" about what we are..
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Originally posted by: arsenal1414
well it is obvious we're not friends.. we've just never talked about it.
err, not JUST friends..
You don't need to negotiate a contract or anything and make official titles. If you go out on dates and everything its usually pretty obvious. If you're just hanging out and fooling around though maybe you need to decide what you want to do.
Originally posted by: Deeko
So ask her douchebag
This from the same guy who the mods won't touch.
Seriously, though... good advice.
Deeko
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Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: Deeko
So ask her douchebag
This from the same guy who the mods won't touch.
Seriously, though... good advice.
Hey, I give good advice. I just don't follow it.
Originally posted by: arsenal1414
well it is obvious we're not friends.. we've just never talked about it.
Stop being a puss and get the sand out of your vagina.
Obviously she's going to say yes, but you still gotta make it official. And that's typically the guys job in the relationship. She says she's confused... that means she's waiting for you to ask her but if you don't then she's gonna move on.
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
Originally posted by: arsenal1414
well it is obvious we're not friends.. we've just never talked about it.
Stop being a puss and get the sand out of your vagina.
Obviously she's going to say yes, but you still gotta make it official. And that's typically the guys job in the relationship. She says she's confused... that means she's waiting for you to ask her but if you don't then she's gonna move on.
gah
i've heard this "get the sand out of your vagina" saying way too much lately. i suck.
just ask her, either to be your gf or if she considers you her bf. if she says she considers you her bf, then she's your gf. if she says she doesn't know if you are, then ask her to be. it's that simple.
look at it this way, you 2 steps ahead of some of the guys on this board, and you're still in high school.
look at it this way, you 2 steps ahead of some of the guys on this board, and you're still in high school.
Originally posted by: giguana
just ask her, either to be your gf or if she considers you her bf. if she says she considers you her bf, then she's your gf. if she says she doesn't know if you are, then ask her to be. it's that simple.
look at it this way, you 2 steps ahead of some of the guys on this board, and you're still in high school.
thanks for the compliment.
EvilYoda
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If you haven't been informed yet, girls have an odd thing about "titles"...I was in a similar situation in HS, and had to be talked to to realize that despite the looming assumption, she still "wasn't sure" and needed to know. So I asked her "do you want to be called my girlfriend"...and that was that.
No worries.
No worries.
You say, "So what are we?" and she'll say, as if she doesn't know, "What do you mean?" and you'll say, "Relationship wise" and she'll say, "Well, I don't know...what are we?" and you say, "I really like you a lot and I think it would be nice if we became something more 'official'" and she'll say, "I'd like that." Then, you go make out.
It's not that hard.
It's not that hard.
We really should just sticky a "Yes you really do have to make it official with the woman" thread at the top of OT. Then again, we'd lose 1/4 of the threads on here.
YES you must ask. Girls need that stuff. This is coming from a girl by the way. We don't like to be confused, we like to confuse others. Its a small thing you'll have to do. It will make her immensely happy even if she says something like "Yeah you big doof, I assumed we were going out."
Yep, again!
Lets see...
3,000,000,000 men with girl problems in the world, 3,000,000,000 men... fix one relationship, patch things up, 2,999,999,999 men with girl problems in the world...
: ) Hopper
Yep, and the quickest way to do that is to introduce her to other people as your girlfriend.
: ) Hopper
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