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YAGT: Is there any FAQ on how to get a girl friend?

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Originally posted by: dfi
Oh ya, and you have to dance.

Bah my gf tries to get me to dance but I never give in 🙂

EDIT: And to get a girlfriend, at least make yourself half-presentable (if I'm overweight work out, if I don't have any semi-decent clothes get some) if you're not already, and just be yourself. You'll find one.
 
Originally posted by: UDT89
Originally posted by: Underground727
Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: Underground727


I am 18. Just any girl is not acceptable, she has to be hot. I mean, it's got to be fun when your hitting it.

You need to be someone a hot chick would want to be with.


oh lord. sounds like you need to lay off the self help. "I'm going to transform myself into someone she wants to be with" blah blah blah. Give me a break. The guy wants to get a girlfirend, he doesn't want to turn himself into a man-whore. given the fact that most relationships end before death, it really isn't smart to focus all your energy on not being you. A little self confidence is all you need. If you need a tan to feel confident, go for it, but realize that it's just a crutch.

The body is a thing that must be kept in tune. How are you transforming yourself into someone else?

I don't need any self help, I'm at the level where I can play "let's see how much of a dick I can be to this girl and still hit it."


Sad part is girls think this guy is great.

Somehow I doubt it. My guess, this guy has been with about as many women as he has kings of foreign countries. I realize there are some genuinely attractive, worthwhile people on ATOT, but anyone who would post crap like that is
a)A 400 lb. social outcast who always types with one hand
b)On my list for the advancement of Darwinism
c)A flaming imbecile
d)All of the above
 
Pull up your pants.
Stop saying DHITB and doing your best Beavis and Butthead laugh.
and no it will not suck it self, nor will she
 
Not too hard but you have to get use to *speaking* to girls and not have the intention that everyone of them you want to get in to a relationship with.

I take it you have guy friends you speak in real life right?

Well speak to the girls in the same way just minus the cussing and techno talk too much. Some girls like it and some don't.

Work out. Not just for the girls it will make you feel better about yourself and its better for your health. Sitting on a computer at a job for 6hrs a day isn't going to help. And unless you already to active sports then you are probably not that healthy exercise wise.

What makes you confident will make you a better person. Hopefully this will come across in what you do in your daily life.

Also there is no secret approach. Some girls will not want you at all. Some girls will want you no matter what you look like or dress.

As others said make yourself presentable. Its important as they do not know you when you are first talking to them. They may be put off that your wearing scruffy clothes or what not. But remember the clothes have to be YOUR choice. No point in completely doing things and wearing things that you do not like.

Koing
 
seriously, you got to stop posting here and go out. As some of the previous posters has mentioned, college life are the bet place to meet girls. Get yourself active in every way you can. 🙂


--Scsi
 
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