:( YAGT: Is it possible to fall in love via msn messenger?

[Walleye]

well, i really really do like this girl. you all know about her, it's the Australian girl that i talk to online... She's really nice, funny, attractive (i think she's gorgeous), easy to talk to, the whole bit... she's a wonderful person, and i like her very much.

this is the girl i have talked about in all these threads...


need cheesy pickup lines FAST
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Seriously thinking about a world record Booty Call...
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I think that's all of em... I am one lovesick pathetic sick bast4rd..

Little background. im 18, (just turned), and she's a little more than 2 years younger than me. she's very nice, very pretty...


but recently, she's been telling me some other things about her... some good, some not so good...

one thing she told me is that it was a dream of hers to make love in a specific car... (damn japanese import cars ...), with aftermarket sound system at full blast.. this was my first hint. Well, first off i dont like japanese cars, and second off, i dont like cheap sex. and this seems like cheap sex to me. so i get from that that her dream is to be fvcked in some dumb jap car... ...


The next thing she tells me is that she kind of wants to experiment with different positions... (well, our entire conversation doesnt all revolve around sex, these are 3 clues i got over several weeks...) not only that, but that she's been getting fingered... which... you guys probably already know my morals, they were illustrated quite a lot in this thread. I know, i am the most conservative A-hole ever to walk the face of the Earth... Anyways, i think you all can see why i get stressed over this...

The last thing she told me is that she is a bisexual... Again, related to my morals. I realize i am not of impeccable moral fiber, but.. this just makes me very sad. I really do like her a lot... i'd even venture to say further...

I was and am still probably going to go down there and see her... but... this is a complication... i do like her a LOT, but.. eh, i doubt any of you would understand. you're too busy trying to find 2 chicks at the same time... something i detest.

i've been talking to her about these things, and i apparently have been making her very sad by expressing my sadness at this. that's the last thing i want to do, make her sad. but, as i said, i doubt any of you would understand..


I'm beginning to rethink my decision to have given up drinking to excess... i need a drink...make that lots of drinks...

no, i musnt... Argh... i hate myself..

 

[H34D0N]

Who knows..

 

[notfred]

No, it's not.

 

[cpals]

Too many 's

 

[jjones]

Yeah, and you need an extra key on your keyboard to send her a stiffy.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

Get some psychiatric help or something. Please.

 

[DurocShark]

The last thing she told me is that she is a bisexual...

Aussie here I come!!!!

Seriously, if you're a morally strong person, you will be hurt/disappointed by her. Move on.

 

[Yossarian]

Dude, you're in love with a 15-year old. That's a child.

 

[Encryptic]

Sorry man, I think you're getting a little too involved with this.

The fact is, she's thousands of miles away from you, with not a lot of options to bridge that distance aside from IMing each other on MSN Messenger.

Also, I doubt that even if you were in the same place, that you'd be completely comfortable with her, due to the conflict between her background and your conservativism (which is not a bad thing, just a different outlook from hers).

I'd say, stay friends with her but try to find someone on your end that you can have a relationship with. Nice Catholic girl, white picket fence, two car garage, you know the drill.

Good luck man!

 

[acidvoodoo]

Originally posted by: notfred
No, it's not.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

 

[ILikeStuff]

yup, you can fall in love... but you may or may not be falling in love with the person who is actually at the other end. Sh!t, i thought I loved my Ex-GF.. but it turns out I loved the person she was pretending to be, not her. (not over MSN, but you get the idea)

BTW, Given your morals, methinks you should seriously rethink being in a serious relationship w/ a bisexual. That will only cause problems later on, as you both have different concepts of morality.

EDIT: So are you willing to fvck her before you are married??? if so, I think your morality is a bit off. (hmm, won't masturbate but no problem w/ premarital sex... sounds fairly hypocritical to me)

 

[conjur]

So go knock over a 7-11 and buy a ticket on Qantas and go get laid.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

It was a joke. You know how moms always say, "When are you going to find a nice Catholic girl and get married?"

 

[fonzinator]

My advice Walleye...run far far away. By prolonging this fake relationship via IM, you are only hurting each other emotionally/mentally. You're 18 bro; she's 16. Take a step back and look at the situation. That's all I have to say.

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

dude my mom's catholic, and she's a skank. no catho's for me. gawd... i hate that religon and all it's followers...


Mormons.. there's a thought

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

dude my mom's catholic, and she's a skank. no catho's for me. gawd... i hate that religon and all it's followers...


Mormons.. there's a thought

You just called your own mother a skank. She one of those dirty girls that hangs out on the street corner and made my pee-pee fall off? :Q

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: ILikeStuff
BTW, Given your morals, methinks you should seriously rethink being in a serious relationship w/ a bisexual. That will only cause problems later on, as you both have different concepts of morality.

Ditto. Two bisexuals in a relationship can even have problems with morality, so what chance have you got?

 

[SuepaFly]

I don't know about falling in love with someone online. Although you may get an idea of how you would get a long with this person, theres no way to compensate for just "being" physically in their presence.

I kind of have a similar situation, but not really. Theres a guy in Canada that I've been ICQ'ing with for...gosh, 8 years or so now. We're both 23 and we've seen eachother through goodtimes and bad times. We have tons in common and a lot of similar ideals. The thing is though, from time to time we'll say something like "All my guy problems would be solved if you just moved down here..." or something like that, but we've both got our own lives going on. The point is, take the trip if you want, but don't make any real decisions until you've actually had time to just be around her. And even then, keep in mind the first few days will probably be blissful and all that. But don't call it love until you've gotten through that period.

 

[Jzero]

You need to loosen up, man. Being sexually uninhibited is a Good Thing. You seem scared of something....she sounds like at least a fun snog although she may not be relationship material.
Falling in love on the net is a bad thing though.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: cpals
Too many 's

Seriously get of msn and chat to people in real life.

Get out a bit more and get off your computer. 1600 something posts in 6 months.........

You are not in love with this girl. She is telling you this because you do not live opposite her house.

Don't spend all that money and see her man........

 

[Walleye]

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

dude my mom's catholic, and she's a skank. no catho's for me. gawd... i hate that religon and all it's followers...


Mormons.. there's a thought

You just called your own mother a skank. She one of those dirty girls that hangs out on the street corner and made my pee-pee fall off? :Q

yes. i hate my mother with a passion none of you can understand.

 

[Maverick]

man I was once like you when I was 15...chatting and meeting girls on IRC. Ugh that was a pathetic time in my life. Go out and meet some real girls. If you're ugly, then meet girls who drink.

 

[nakedfrog]

It's also pretty ill-advised to plan any sort of serious relationship with a sixteen year old girl... talk about capricious.

 

[ILikeStuff]

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Walleye

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Nice Catholic girl

Good luck finding one of those that meet his morals.

dude my mom's catholic, and she's a skank. no catho's for me. gawd... i hate that religon and all it's followers...


Mormons.. there's a thought

You just called your own mother a skank. She one of those dirty girls that hangs out on the street corner and made my pee-pee fall off? :Q

yes. i hate my mother with a passion none of you can understand.

you HATE your mom?!? :Q :brokenheart: