YAGT: I'm upset....

Eli

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Now, I'm the last person you should expect a YAGT thread from, but I'm kinda pissed off right now and I need to vent.

Okay, here's a little background info. Last Christmas, she went up there for what was also supposed to be a week.. But there was a lack of communication between us down here, and her dad up in Washington, and she ended up staying for 2 weeks because we all assumd that her Dad could bring her back, but he couldn't. We ended up meeting them half way. The whole ordeal really upset us, and we wanted to do all we could to make sure that never happened again. Fast forward to summer break...

My girlfriend went up to visit her Dad on Saturday, the 14th.. for what was supposed to be a weeks visit. We had been talking about this for over a month, and it was always a week.. a week. I made her make sure that she figured out how she was going to get home before she left this time. She emailed her kidnapper(Her ex-step mom came to get her), asking how she was going to get home.. But she never emailed back before she left. I figured it wasn't a big deal, and everything would be fine.. considering what happened last time.

I was talking to her mom last night, and she told me that she's going up there to pick her up on July 4th! WTF? That's 3 weeks! :disgust::|:(

Before she left, her mom asked if I knew that she was going to be gone for 2 weeks. She just gave her that blank stare, like.. "Uh-Oh".. and said that she would tell me online. That wouldn't be that big of a deal I guess, but now it's turned into 3!

I fscking hate this bullsh!t. It drives me absolutely bonkers.

Now, I haven't gotten a chance to talk with my girlfriend yet, so I don't know if this is her decision, or what. If it is, then that's fine.. But I have a feeling that she has no control over this nonsense, and that's really what pisses me off.

I guess I'll have to con my brother and his girlfriend into taking a road trip(~250 miles, I'd pay for gas) if that's what it comes to.

FSCK! :|
 

Encryptic

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The thing with her not telling you how long she would be gone seems pretty fvcked up, as does this whole situation. Sorry to hear about it.
 

Drakkon

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absence makes the heart grow fonder....
is this a trust issue? or a clingy issue? or what?
I'm not really seeing a horrible prob here except for the fact that being away from ur girl for a couple weeks is driving u crazy...go out with the boyz and have some fun...while the cats away... ;)
 

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Originally posted by: cybpnk
Females Lie............

Her mom kinda hinted that she knew it was 2 weeks all along. :( But whenever we talked about it, it was always 1 week... I don't know why she would lie to me.. maybe she was afraid of disappointing me or something.. I don't know.. I mean, AFAIK.. she's never lied to me. Our relationship is absolutely wonderful..... we never fight, or have any serious arguments, or anything like that... This is just mind boggling..

If that's the case, she needs to understand that this is 100x worse than her being gone an extra week, or even two.. could ever be.

I think I need to get ahold of her before my mind really starts playing stupid tricks on me.

:(:(:(

This sucks.
 

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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: cybpnk
Females Lie............

Her mom kinda hinted that she knew it was 2 weeks all along. :( But whenever we talked about it, it was always 1 week... I don't know why she would lie to me.. maybe she was afraid of disappointing me or something.. I don't know.. I mean, AFAIK.. she's never lied to me. Our relationship is absolutely wonderful..... we never fight, or have any serious arguments, or anything like that... This is just mind boggling..

I think I need to get ahold of her before my mind really starts playing stupid tricks on me.

:(:(:(

This sucks.


Thats the best thing to do, WARNING: dont expect anything other then a genaric answer IE - I didnt know or I didnt want to dissapoint you.

 

rahvin

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She's with her parents, mind your own business and let her tend to her own affairs. Don't be a control freak.
 

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This is an example of what happens to a guy who isn't getting it!
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: rahvin
She's with her parents, mind your own business and let her tend to her own affairs. Don't be a control freak.
I'm not being controlling at all, I said that if this is her decision then that is fine, but I have a feeling that it is not.

I just like to know what's going on.

Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
This is an example of what happens to a guy who isn't getting it!

Ok, that made me smile. :D
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Can't you call her?

Yeah, I can buy a phone card and call her. That's what I plan on doing..

I just hate scenarios like this. I'm fine as long as I know what's going on, but my mind plays all kinds of tricks on me when I don't.. :p
 

WannaFly

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are you 13?

Anyway, whats the big deal, its three weeks. But a phone card and just talk to her alot.

ITS ONLY THREE WEEKS.
 

Encryptic

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Originally posted by: WannaFly
are you 13?

Anyway, whats the big deal, its three weeks. But a phone card and just talk to her alot.

ITS ONLY THREE WEEKS.

Geez. Give him a break. I think he's just more upset about the lack of communication regarding how long she was going to be gone than anything else.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
How old are you, and how old is she. Age seems to be the big factor here.
I'm 22, she's 18.

Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: WannaFly
are you 13?

Anyway, whats the big deal, its three weeks. But a phone card and just talk to her alot.

ITS ONLY THREE WEEKS.

Geez. Give him a break. I think he's just more upset about the lack of communication regarding how long she was going to be gone than anything else.

At least some of you get it.

Christ.
 

rahvin

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Originally posted by: Eli
I just like to know what's going on.

This desire to know what's going on is a direct result of your desire to be in control of a situation. Relax, let life run it's course and stop trying to make decisions for your female friend. IF she thinks it's a problem she will talk to her parents about it, frankly it's none of your business and as someone else pointed out it reeks of immaturity.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: rahvin
Originally posted by: Eli
I just like to know what's going on.

This desire to know what's going on is a direct result of your desire to be in control of a situation. Relax, let life run it's course and stop trying to make decisions for your female friend. IF she thinks it's a problem she will talk to her parents about it, frankly it's none of your business and as someone else pointed out it reeks of immaturity.

What the fsck are you talking about? How is wanting to know what the hell is going on wanting to be in control of the situation? She was supposed to be gone for a week, and now it's turned into 3. Are you telling me you wouldn't at least be like.. "well, what the hell is going on?"? Please.

See the post above yours.