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YAGT: I'm in trouble

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tRaptor

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To make a long story short, I'm in trouble.

Three weeks in a row I have let my girlfriend down.

Week 1 she calls me for some reason.
Week 2 She calls me depressed about finals
Week 3 She calls with a broken arm, scared to go into sugery (sp?)

all three weeks I wasent there.

The 3rd week she was gone snowboarding, and i didnt get to talk to her till her 4th call.

Now the problem is that I dont really think that I have done anything wrong. Every time that she called I was either A. At work, B. In class/Final Test.

All times I tried to call her back ASAP.

I just got off the phone, and she was very upset with me, even crying.

Is there anything I can to do to reassure her, or make her feel better? Int not that i didnt want to be there for her, its just she calls at such bad times (simply put, times when i am not there)
 
Actually, she left voice mail every time. But that dosent change the fact they I wasent there. If you mean I should have left her a message, I do.
 
Originally posted by: tRaptor
Actually, she left voice mail every time. But that dosent change the fact they I wasent there. If you mean I should have left her a message, I do.
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So she's pissed that you're busy? Tell her the world doesn't revolve around her problems.
 
Yeah, I guess. IDK, shes just mad casue i guess she was REALLY scared of the surgery, which is weird cause shes a nurse.

But I think I will buy her a gift. If she dosent get it from someone else, I'll buy her the movie "Hero". I know its kinda a lame gift, but I'm not supposed to get her anything becasue she knows that I have no money, and I'm already fixing her laptop which is costing enough.....
 
[*]just let her go if she gets too emotional or angry that there is not way out for you
[*]or explain your situation and side of the story
🙂:laugh::roll::light::gift:
 
Next time you see her with a cast on her arm, say "You broke!"

A friend of a friend did this, and that burned the bridges with the girl.

Actually pay no attention to me.

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Originally posted by: tRaptor
To make a long story short, I'm in trouble.

Three weeks in a row I have let my girlfriend down.

Week 1 she calls me for some reason.
Week 2 She calls me depressed about finals
Week 3 She calls with a broken arm, scared to go into sugery (sp?)

all three weeks I wasent there.

The 3rd week she was gone snowboarding, and i didnt get to talk to her till her 4th call.

Now the problem is that I dont really think that I have done anything wrong. Every time that she called I was either A. At work, B. In class/Final Test.

All times I tried to call her back ASAP.

I just got off the phone, and she was very upset with me, even crying.

Is there anything I can to do to reassure her, or make her feel better? Int not that i didnt want to be there for her, its just she calls at such bad times (simply put, times when i am not there)
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women are like that.

Deal with it.
 
do a surprise visit and bring flowers a little teddy bear with a little heart that says i love you


"i know i haven't seen enough of you lately and i've missed you"

^^^
tweak that into the opening conversation somehow
 
You must do the following:

Call her when you know she will be gone. Multiple times in the week. Leave messages that are "just saying hey" in a way that doesn't imply you want a call back.

The next week, call her and ask her what is up with her not calling back, or being home when you called.

If she doesn't get it, get over it. If she gets it, you both win!
 
Was she upset with YOU or upset because she was scared & wanted you there (upset at the fact that you were unavailable, not at you because you did something wrong)?
 
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Was she upset with YOU or upset because she was scared & wanted you there (upset at the fact that you were unavailable, not at you because you did something wrong)?
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Just mad casue I was unavaliable. I'm a little afraid that this might just be nearing the end. Which makes me sad, but I'd live. I'm supposed to talk to her tomorrow, so we will see how that goes.
 
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