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YAGT: I'm Dating A Close Friend of Mine...

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amicold

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I've known this girl for quite some time now and we're the best of friends, beyond close, well I finally figured why not bite the bullet. So I asked her out and I was just wondering if the ATOT "experts" think we'll last.... We have choosen to remain friends afterwards as we rely on eachother heavily for emotional issues.
 
Go with the flow, and good luck :thumbsup: Dont be discouraged by the posts that this thread might induce.

Also, you said you "chose to remain friends afterwards" did you guys discuss this? are any of you coming off any serious relationships?
 
I did the same and we only went out for about 4 1/2 months before we broke up. It wasn't that we didn't get along or anything like that... we never really got a solid bf/gf relationship going since I'm away at school, and we're both at a point where we're going to be looking for jobs soon or going back to school. Just happened at a bad time unfortunately.

Good luck to you guys.
 
the way i see it, these should be the best relationships

all a S/O is, is a friend you can get physical with 😉

or perhaps im missing some thing
 
Originally posted by: brunswickite
Go with the flow, and good luck :thumbsup: Dont be discouraged by the posts that this thread might induce.

Also, you said you "chose to remain friends afterwards" did you guys discuss this? are any of you coming off any serious relationships?
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Neither, both been single for quite awhile but we're just so close it was as if we couldn't get any closer without a true relationship. When we weren't together it was like a relationship and when I asked her she said she wanted to remain friends if it doesn't work out because as I said we depend upon one another, and I had similar feelings.

Edit: Girlfriend not a date.
 
Originally posted by: amicold
I've known this girl for quite some time now and we're the best of friends, beyond close, well I finally figured why not bite the bullet. So I asked her out and I was just wondering if the ATOT "experts" think we'll last.... We chose to remain friends afterwords as we rely on eachother heavily for emotional issues.
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So if you're currently dating, why the past tense in choosing to remain friends afterwards?
 
I was very close friends with my wife for quite some time before we hooked up, etc.

It can work and, when it does, it can be awesome.
 
Originally posted by: amicold
I've known this girl for quite some time now and we're the best of friends, beyond close, well I finally figured why not bite the bullet. So I asked her out and I was just wondering if the ATOT "experts" think we'll last.... We have choosen to remain friends afterwards as we rely on eachother heavily for emotional issues.
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thanks for letting us know, we have been worried about you for quite awhile.
 
you better hope that you two never breakup, because if you do I guarantee you will never be close friends again.

nobody is saying this can't work, just don't expect for everything to go back to the way it was if you guys ever break up. if you have serious feelings for this girl, it's going to be impossible for you to ever see her as just your friend again. it will rip your heart in half everytime you see her with another guy. so please take my advice, if you ever breakup then you need to make a clean break and move on.
 
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: her209
Honestly, it'd be quite boring because you both know each other so well already.
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How would you know, if you haven't gone through it yourself? Or have you.
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I haven't personally but I know people who have.
 
Originally posted by: hg321
Originally posted by: amicold
I've known this girl for quite some time now and we're the best of friends, beyond close, well I finally figured why not bite the bullet. So I asked her out and I was just wondering if the ATOT "experts" think we'll last.... We have choosen to remain friends afterwards as we rely on eachother heavily for emotional issues.
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thanks for letting us know, we have been worried about you for quite awhile.
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Here's my d!ck, you can suck on it instead of her. Miserable asshat.
 
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: her209
Honestly, it'd be quite boring because you both know each other so well already.
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How would you know, if you haven't gone through it yourself? Or have you.
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I haven't personally but I know people who have.
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For some people it does work.
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Oh I'm sure it does. The question is, how often does it happen?
 
Originally posted by: amicold
Originally posted by: hg321
Originally posted by: amicold
I've known this girl for quite some time now and we're the best of friends, beyond close, well I finally figured why not bite the bullet. So I asked her out and I was just wondering if the ATOT "experts" think we'll last.... We have choosen to remain friends afterwards as we rely on eachother heavily for emotional issues.
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thanks for letting us know, we have been worried about you for quite awhile.
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Here's my d!ck, you can suck on it instead of her.
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ouch you got me 🙁
 
I sincerely hope you're both > 24 and have worked out your need to be single and mess around already. Good luck!
 
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: her209
Honestly, it'd be quite boring because you both know each other so well already.
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How would you know, if you haven't gone through it yourself? Or have you.
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I haven't personally but I know people who have.
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For some people it does work.
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Oh I'm sure it does. The question is, how often does it happen?
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Who is to say really. I do know of one couple, personally, it does work. If you have an adventuresome couple, that like to do things together, and explore life, together. I don't think they would get bored.

They understand each other, they realize it takes work, compromise, understanding, patience. Along with kindness, tenderness, and they like to please one another. For this couple, it works. From what I have seen, they make one another happy.
 
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