YAGT : If you got rejected would you want to know why?

Drakkon

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Went out with a girl who acted prior to the first date (talked on the phone a few times) really excited to go out with me. After the first date talking to her has been talking to a brick wall so i've kinda taken it as a lost cause and havent asked for a second. So that being said, havent asked about why shes acting this way but i see her too often cause she works at the starbucks i go to...so...should i ask why?
 

spidey07

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move on, it will happen again. That's what a first date is for, to see if there should be a second.
 

HappyPuppy

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When you picked her up for your date did you say, "Wanna fvck, Bitch?" :p

If I were you I would agonize and lose sleep over it for months. Better yet, I would let my grades go into the toilet and get kicked out of school. Yeh, that's the ticket. :thumbsup:
 

ultimatebob

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
When you picked her up for your date did you say, "Wanna fvck, Bitch?" :p

If I were you I would agonize and lose sleep over it for months. Better yet, I would let my grades go into the toilet and get kicked out of school. Yeh, that's the ticket. :thumbsup:


Wow, good advice! All you need to do is add a bit of religious guilt, and you will have successfully emulated the famous Skywalker66 dating method! :)
 

Darthvoy

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
When you picked her up for your date did you say, "Wanna fvck, Bitch?" :p

If I were you I would agonize and lose sleep over it for months. Better yet, I would let my grades go into the toilet and get kicked out of school. Yeh, that's the ticket. :thumbsup:

yeah must have fvcked up at the date. Most women take the first date as the most important. They judge your every move and everything you say, and if something turns the off....that's it...it is over. Move on, and next time you go out with a girl pay attention to her and figure out if what you are doing is enjoyable to her..there's your answer.
 

Baked

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Dec 28, 2004
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I stopped caring after the 2nd time. She ain't the only fish in the pond.
 

Drakkon

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i never have asked in the past...but usually i can just avoid the girl...this one works at a place i go to too often...oh well already went out with a diff girl friday night so already fishin :D
 

kranky

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No chemistry. Take it as it is, and move on. There's no point in demanding an explanation.
 

Fritzo

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Well feedback is nice. Might be something you can improve. Not like a girl is going to give you a critique though :(
 

Aimster

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I know I have money as it is obvious in my picture. I have 2 computers and an entire CD collection.! I can buy myself a woman!
 
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Originally posted by: Aimster
I know I have money as it is obvious in my picture. I have 2 computers and an entire CD collection.! I can buy myself a woman!

Would you stop posting, go buy a blackhead gun, and lose about sixty pounds? Jesus.

Get some contact lenses, buy some new clothes, and get a god damned haircut.

- M4H
 

olds

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Mar 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: Aimster
I know I have money as it is obvious in my picture. I have 2 computers and an entire CD collection.! I can buy myself a woman!
I hear Martha Stewart is available.

 

Landroval

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Even if you ask, she will probably feel awkward about explaining why (or try to be too tactful and not really get to the point)
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Landroval
Even if you ask, she will probably feel awkward about explaining why (or try to be too tactful and not really get to the point)

Sounds about right.

I've turned a few women down in the past few years and I've been turned down, just the way it goes. No use worrying about it because often times it's not something you'd want to tell someone for fear of hurting their feelings.