YAGT: Ice Skating

[txrandom]

I asked the girl from my previous YAGT if she wanted to go ice skating Thursday night after finding out that she didn't have any tests and only one Friday class. She said, "I don't know" and I asked her if she was doing anything else and she said, "I don't know." I told her I'd just talk to her later then and walked into class.

So now I don't know what to do. She seemed interested last week, but after today it doesn't look to good. Should I call her up and say, "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier today, you don't have to come if you don't want to." Or "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier, do you just want to go to dinner Thursday night." If I say the latter, she might respond, "I don't know" again.

What should I do in this situation? She could of said no, yes, maybe, but she had to say "I don't know". Now I'm confused on how to act.

 

[SociallyChallenged]

Originally posted by: txrandom
I asked the girl from my previous YAGT if she wanted to go ice skating Thursday night after finding out that she didn't have any tests and only one Friday class. She said, "I don't know" and I asked her if she was doing anything else and she said, "I don't know." I told her I'd just talk to her later then and walked into class.

So now I don't know what to do. She seemed interested last week, but after today it doesn't look to good. Should I call her up and say, "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier today, you don't have to come if you don't want to." Or "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier, do you just want to go to dinner Thursday night." If I say the latter, she might respond, "I don't know" again.

What should I do in this situation? She could of said no, yes, maybe, but she had to say "I don't know". Now I'm confused on how to act.

Why would you do that? That would be putting her on the spot again. If she responds "I don't know," just follow up on that one. Don't apologize, there's nothing wrong with asking a girl on a date, but if you think she's not interested then move along.

 

[dirtboy]

If she wanted to go, she'd have said yes. All other responses, other than saying she can't go but will go in the future, mean she doesn't want to go.

 

[sixone]

Just call her up tomorrow and ask if she wants to go. If you don't get a firm 'yes', don't call again.

 

[RichUK]

I don?t get it. Why are there so many people on here that just don?t have a clue how to handle a situation with a girl? IT?S CRAZY.

Right then, third time lucky maybe? Or just walk round to her's in your birthday suit with your pimp hand already raised.

 

[SVT Cobra]

I don't know means....no.

I am serious, sorry bud.

 

[maddogchen]

you shoulda had a backup plan, if she didn't want ice skating, shoulda asked how bout dinner instead? and if she had said "I don't know" to that, then it means she's not interested.

 

[txrandom]

I don't mind a No. It sucks, but I can get over it. I don't Know just drags the situation on longer.

 

[Koing]

She doesn't seem interested.

Leave her or a week or so and call her out for dinner. If she says no but doesn't suggest another date, ditch her.

You don't need to beat a dead horse and your showing her your too keen and kind of desperate. Call next week.

Koing

 

[lytalbayre]

Better yet, if she has a friend in class who she chats with, just ask the friend out. Make sure the original girl over hears you asking. Show's you're not needy... and might just make her jealous....

 

[Riverhound777]

Originally posted by: txrandom
I asked the girl from my previous YAGT if she wanted to go ice skating Thursday night after finding out that she didn't have any tests and only one Friday class. She said, "I don't know" and I asked her if she was doing anything else and she said, "I don't know." I told her I'd just talk to her later then and walked into class.

So now I don't know what to do. She seemed interested last week, but after today it doesn't look to good. Should I call her up and say, "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier today, you don't have to come if you don't want to." Or "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier, do you just want to go to dinner Thursday night." If I say the latter, she might respond, "I don't know" again.

What should I do in this situation? She could of said no, yes, maybe, but she had to say "I don't know". Now I'm confused on how to act.

My god man, grow a pair. Women don't always have to be asked and begged to do everything. They want someone to take some charge, be a man. She was testing you, and you failed miserably.

Edit: if your confused on what I mean, here is an example of what you could have said: "What are you doing Thursday?"
When she says "I don't know" respond with "Alright, lets go ice skating than"
If she says I don't know again, tease her on how she got into school with such a limited vocabulary.

 

[RichUK]

Originally posted by: lytalbayre
Better yet, if she has a friend in class who she chats with, just ask the friend out. Make sure the original girl over hears you asking. Show's you're not needy... and might just make her jealous....

Or he'll get a biatch slap in front of his entire class.

This would make for some good reading on AT.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: lytalbayre
Better yet, if she has a friend in class who she chats with, just ask the friend out. Make sure the original girl over hears you asking. Show's you're not needy... and might just make her jealous....

If you can't find a friend, ask out her mom.

 

[pcnerd37]

Originally posted by: Riverhound777

Originally posted by: txrandom
I asked the girl from my previous YAGT if she wanted to go ice skating Thursday night after finding out that she didn't have any tests and only one Friday class. She said, "I don't know" and I asked her if she was doing anything else and she said, "I don't know." I told her I'd just talk to her later then and walked into class.

So now I don't know what to do. She seemed interested last week, but after today it doesn't look to good. Should I call her up and say, "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier today, you don't have to come if you don't want to." Or "I'm sorry for putting you on the spot earlier, do you just want to go to dinner Thursday night." If I say the latter, she might respond, "I don't know" again.

What should I do in this situation? She could of said no, yes, maybe, but she had to say "I don't know". Now I'm confused on how to act.

My god man, grow a pair. Women don't always have to be asked and begged to do everything. They want someone to take some charge, be a man. She was testing you, and you failed miserably.

Edit: if your confused on what I mean, here is an example of what you could have said: "What are you doing Thursday?"
When she says "I don't know" respond with "Alright, lets go ice skating than"
If she says I don't know again, tease her on how she got into school with such a limited vocabulary.

QFT!

 

[JasonCoder]

Originally posted by: yowolabi

Originally posted by: lytalbayre
Better yet, if she has a friend in class who she chats with, just ask the friend out. Make sure the original girl over hears you asking. Show's you're not needy... and might just make her jealous....

If you can't find a friend, ask out her mom.

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