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beguile

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Not only are you taking her. You're also taking in the baggage like her kids and her problems. There's reasons people break up and if she's in the process of getting a divorce now, she might be emotionally attached to her ex-husband. You might as well end up as a rebound. Play safe if I were you.
 

TTM77

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what BEGUILE said I heard it on the radio. According to what I heard on that radio, you are very likely a rebounce. Her X-husband must have banged her when she was young so now she missed that's how u're in the pic.

But then, throw all the rule books out the window and just have fun. They're not your kids so it's your choice if you want to be their dad or not. But if U're really with her then U need to be a good role model too.

"Her problem" that is depend if she'll lay it on U or share with you or will just need your support. All things can sort out with time and know her more.
 

Jassi

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Originally posted by: DayLaPaul
A gentleman never asks a lady her age.

They don't post her pic on a site for random people to gawk at either... draw your own conclusions...
 

LLCOOLJ

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Did you tell her you were going to brag about it to the other nerds on the Internet?
 

Mustangrrl

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She's definitely cute!

Even if you did end up marrying her, don't worry about finanial responsibility, she and her ex can probably well afford to take care of their own children, they've been doing it without your cash thusfar :)

This is 2006, people, really.
 

OutHouse

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Originally posted by: BigToque
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: GhettoFob
Originally posted by: Xanis
She looks pretty young for 37.

yeah very young for a 37. looks more like 26 or so

This is what I was thinking when I met her. I thought 27 or 28.

I met her at a bar and when we were dancing she said "I'm too old for you". After the first date, she said she was "in her thirties". After the 2nd date, I was just totally forward and said I wanted to know her age. I was totally shocked when she said 37.

She's got a TIGHT body. She's in fantastic shape.

humm 37, 3 kids, separated, hanging out in a bar. hummm all i can say is DUDE RUN!!

 

Wag

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Be sure to tell her you posted a a picture of her on the internet. I'm sure she'll like that...
 

bennylong

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Originally posted by: Raduque
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Nebor
Originally posted by: arcas
Nice looking to be 37. She's holding up well; she must've been a knockout at 25. I have to say, though, that jumping into a relationship with someone with 3 kids might be rough. 3 kids are going to be expensive.

Yeah, the kids make it a no-go. You don't want to be financially responsible for those kids.
He didn't say he was going to marry her. Even then, their father will be paying support.

I meant if they go to a baseball game or something. Being responsible for buying each of them a soda could seriously add up! $$$

Tightwad!


3 kids plus you and the miss, that's 5 people going to a baseball game. That could add up to $300 for a ballgame. You'll get better value and a happy ending at some asian massage parlor
 

Svnla

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OP, three things:

1.She is cute and young looking.
2. I used to date single moms. Remember that you will have to share her with her kids <time and attention>.
3. Darn you young grasshopper, take a proper pic <full body> asap. BTW, that was a nice pic from a phone camera. Which model was it?

Take it slow and best wishes.
 

Cdubneeddeal

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I would definitley call it off. It's not the three kids it's the fact that she's seperated in the middle of a divorce. You're playing with fire, seriously. Been in the same situation as you when I was 25, and she was 35.
 

cherrytwist

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Originally posted by: Rogodin2
30 year olds have crows feet like that-not 37 year olds. I know what age looks like and she's not the age she says she is.

Rogo

My wife's 30 and she has no crows feet. You have no credibility.
 

RaiderJ

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Originally posted by: m2kewl
you're 24, she's 37 yrs old? 3 kids?

RUN, RRRUUNNNN, RRUUNNNNNNNN BigToque, RRRRRRRRRRUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!

Sounds like she has enough on her plate with three kids.
 

shilala

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She's a damn good looking woman.
Looks fun and at ease with herself, too.
The "kid baggage" was never baggage to me, but maybe that's just because I'm not a selfish greedy asswipe.
Just go slow. And hit it repeatedly.
 

FrankSaucedo

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Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Originally posted by: m2kewl
you're 24, she's 37 yrs old? 3 kids?

RUN, RRRUUNNNN, RRUUNNNNNNNN BigToque, RRRRRRRRRRUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!

Sounds like she has enough on her plate with three kids.


Dont do it. She's not looking for a casual relationship.

And you are too young for an instant family.
 

archiloco

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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
She definetly doesnt look 37. I clicked on the pic before I read your post and I assumed she was 25.

sam here, just be carefull and take it one day at a time, she must be really fragil at the moment and you don't want to be that rebound guy.
 

Scrooge2

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She's cute, but seriously, kids? You're 24, i'm guessing out of college for a few years, are you ready for kids???