Yagt: How would you feel if?

flxnimprtmscl

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Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.
 

Maximus96

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i would feel the same way. you can bet she'll raise hell if you forget her birthday
 

MAME

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I honestly wouldn't care because I can use it as leverage for another time
 

amol

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I see that you're in Oregon . . . the day still has 7 hours left . . . she could be planning a surprise ;)

But if she really does forget . . .

FVCKING BITCH
 

OneOfTheseDays

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.

you know what this means, totally ignore her on her birthday, let her know how it feels.
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: MAME
I honestly wouldn't care because I can use it as leverage for another time

Free Sex Coupon.

Just tuck it in your pocket. Next time she gets in a pissy mood and the clam tightens up harder than Oprah's grip on a KK doughnut, pop out the card and say "Remember when you forgot my birthday? Here's my card. Now back dat ass up!"

uh, ok
 

tfinch2

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Feb 3, 2004
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My SO worked a double shift on my birthday. It was sucky, but the make-up perks were sucky too if you know what I mean...<nudge nudge>

Oh wait this is ATOT, you don't know what I mean :p
 
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Lola

i would be very upset if my SO forgot. nine months is not really "seeing each other" either!
I am sorry... anyways, happy birthday to you!
 

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Lola
i would be very upset if my SO forgot. nine months is not really "seeing each other" either!
I am sorry... anyways, happy birthday to you!

Well mine's easy to remember so my GF has no flippin' excuse to forget. 1/1
 

amol

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Jul 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Lola
i would be very upset if my SO forgot. nine months is not really "seeing each other" either!
I am sorry... anyways, happy birthday to you!

Well mine's easy to remember so my GF has no flippin' excuse to forget. 1/1

you got to give her slack, though, she'd have a massive hangover :p
 

NFS4

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Amol
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Lola
i would be very upset if my SO forgot. nine months is not really "seeing each other" either!
I am sorry... anyways, happy birthday to you!

Well mine's easy to remember so my GF has no flippin' excuse to forget. 1/1

you got to give her slack, though, she'd have a massive hangover :p

She doesn't drink (often). Still no excuse
 

cavemanmoron

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Originally posted by: zaku
i would feel the same way. you can bet she'll raise hell if you forget her birthday

I had the people who were living with me forget my birthday,
twice.

:brokenheart:


I live alone now.
 

djheater

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Mar 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.

I could give a crap if anyone remembers my birthday... Sure it's nice if they do... but what are you twelve? Fighting with a woman you 'presumably' love over your birthday?

You're 24 quit being a baby.

 

NFS4

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Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.

I could give a crap if anyone remembers my birthday... Sure it's nice if they do... but what are you twelve? Fighting with a woman you 'presumably' love over your birthday?

You're 24 quit being a baby.

How would you feel if your wife forgot your anniversary? You know what she'd be mad as hell.
 

amol

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Jul 8, 2001
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i've had best friends forget my birthday :(

worst part is, i always remember their birthday (even if they're an "okay" friend, not really good friends)
 

nageov3t

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Feb 18, 2004
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I wouldn't care.

for me, my birthday is just another day of the year. it's not something I'd want anyone making a big deal out of.
 

MAME

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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.

I could give a crap if anyone remembers my birthday... Sure it's nice if they do... but what are you twelve? Fighting with a woman you 'presumably' love over your birthday?

You're 24 quit being a baby.

How would you feel if your wife forgot your anniversary? You know what she'd be mad as hell.

depends on the girl, my ex didn't care about that date crap
 

djheater

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Mar 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so today is my birthday. At 24 I'm now old :( Anyway, the week goes by and my gf of almost 9 months says nothing about anything she's planning or anything like that. I get the feeling she doesn't remember so I just ride it out and wait and see.

Last night we're watching a movie and she's trying to talk me into some home repair projects that you obviously wouldn't want to do on your birthday. At that point I was pretty sure she had no idea.

So today rolls around, she says nothing this morning before I head to work. I talked to her a couple times durring the day when I was at work. Still nothing. I take off a little early today and get home about 4. I'm not in the best mood when I get home because it's been kind of a crappy day and I'm a little annoyed that she forgot. She picks up on my bad mood right away and gets a b!tchy attitude with me. About 20 minutes later I walk out to the living room to get something and she gives me "Hey, is today your birthday?". That's all I get. No card, no present, not even a happy birthday.

We get into a discussion about this and she admits that she couldn't remember if my birthday was the 4th or the 8th but says "she remembered" :confused: Huh? I'm as annoyed by her trying to insult my intelligence as I am by her forgetting. Anyway, see poll.

For the record, I don't care about getting a cake or a present or any other crap like that. However, it would be nice if the person you're with can actually remember.

I could give a crap if anyone remembers my birthday... Sure it's nice if they do... but what are you twelve? Fighting with a woman you 'presumably' love over your birthday?

You're 24 quit being a baby.

How would you feel if your wife forgot your anniversary? You know what she'd be mad as hell.

I never forget our anniversary, but she's forgotten it for the past 4 years running.

It doesn't bother me at all.

We both remember our childrens birthday's because they're UNDER TWELVE

Jesus, they're just days... big deal... if you get something nice GREAT if sombody does something special GREAT... but come on people it's not the end of the world if somebody forgets your b-day, it doesn't mean they don't love you or care... they just flaked... relax.