Just curious. Lately since the GF and I have broken up a month or so ago, I've had a lot of dates with a lot of chicks. On fire, you could say. Right now I have a dilemma between two chicks, one which I went out on a date with last night, one tonight. (I have like 4 other chicks who also want to go out on a date this next week, 1 of which I've ruled out, 1 of which I'm so-so interested in, the other two I'd definitely go out with if it wasn't for this dilemma)
Anyway here goes:
Girl 1: She's 19, about to turn 20. (I'm 23, will turn 24 a few days after she turns 20) She's a horse trainer, has her own business, is about to publish a book. (She's gonna be somebody someday, it's easy to tell) A little bit more on the reserved side - not too too much, but a tiny little bit. She's great - super sweet, sexy as hell, and from our date on Friday I know she's totally into me. We're going out again Sunday. (We just saw a movie and hung out at the mall Friday night) (I was going to blow off Girl 2 to go out tonight with Girl 1, but I thought I better keep my options open) Probably a 8/10 on looks. She also offers to pay for half of everything we go out and do, wants us to be complete equals. Loves to cook and treats her guys like kings.
Girl 2: She's 21, about to turn 22. Right now she's about to start studying to become a
registered nurse. She's the cutest girl I think I've ever seen, I'm surprised she wanted to go out with me. On a looks scale, probably a 8.5/10. Just straight up pure cuteness. (Half Hispanic, half white) We go see a movie, head out to this Taste of Addison event and see Smashmouth, grab some dinner and get a drink or two. Really great time, she's been burned in the past (as has #1, not exclusive to #2) and thought I was sooo nice and great to her. The bad thing is she has a daughter whose 3.5, has down syndrome. I have no problem with her having a kid, just might hinder some things. She doesn't seem like the type of person who pays for half or anything on dates, not too sure about that though.
Both Girl 1 & 2 say I'm the nicest guy they've ever dated, I'm great, sweet, sexy, have a great body/chest, all that jazz. I like both and don't want to lead either on. Any ideas? Honestly, I'm leaning more towards 2 but I think either or could turn into something really really great. Both are just absolutely amazing women, I'm just having a hard time figuring out who to choose. I don't expect you guys to pick, just any suggestions on how to choose the "right one" would be nice. TIA
EDIT: Regarding the no brainer w/ girl 1 - I guess her age (not being able to get into bars and do adult stuff) is kind of a hang up, and maybe maturity level. That and she could make it huge into horse training in a few months (Olympic related stuff) - maybe I'm afraid of being left behind in the dust with her long term.
While the thought of her having a kid kinda scares me a little bit, I don't see it as a huge factor. She has a huge extended family all living in the metroplex, the kid is well taken care of and loved by everyone. She's a great mom but has her space in relationships from the kid.
http://www.melvinchu.com/images/girl2.jpg
Pic of girl 2 - that's a bad pic of her - in person she is the cutest person I've ever seen. 10/10 on a cuteness scale. None of you guys would kick her out of bed.
Anyway here goes:
Girl 1: She's 19, about to turn 20. (I'm 23, will turn 24 a few days after she turns 20) She's a horse trainer, has her own business, is about to publish a book. (She's gonna be somebody someday, it's easy to tell) A little bit more on the reserved side - not too too much, but a tiny little bit. She's great - super sweet, sexy as hell, and from our date on Friday I know she's totally into me. We're going out again Sunday. (We just saw a movie and hung out at the mall Friday night) (I was going to blow off Girl 2 to go out tonight with Girl 1, but I thought I better keep my options open) Probably a 8/10 on looks. She also offers to pay for half of everything we go out and do, wants us to be complete equals. Loves to cook and treats her guys like kings.
Girl 2: She's 21, about to turn 22. Right now she's about to start studying to become a
registered nurse. She's the cutest girl I think I've ever seen, I'm surprised she wanted to go out with me. On a looks scale, probably a 8.5/10. Just straight up pure cuteness. (Half Hispanic, half white) We go see a movie, head out to this Taste of Addison event and see Smashmouth, grab some dinner and get a drink or two. Really great time, she's been burned in the past (as has #1, not exclusive to #2) and thought I was sooo nice and great to her. The bad thing is she has a daughter whose 3.5, has down syndrome. I have no problem with her having a kid, just might hinder some things. She doesn't seem like the type of person who pays for half or anything on dates, not too sure about that though.
Both Girl 1 & 2 say I'm the nicest guy they've ever dated, I'm great, sweet, sexy, have a great body/chest, all that jazz. I like both and don't want to lead either on. Any ideas? Honestly, I'm leaning more towards 2 but I think either or could turn into something really really great. Both are just absolutely amazing women, I'm just having a hard time figuring out who to choose. I don't expect you guys to pick, just any suggestions on how to choose the "right one" would be nice. TIA
EDIT: Regarding the no brainer w/ girl 1 - I guess her age (not being able to get into bars and do adult stuff) is kind of a hang up, and maybe maturity level. That and she could make it huge into horse training in a few months (Olympic related stuff) - maybe I'm afraid of being left behind in the dust with her long term.
While the thought of her having a kid kinda scares me a little bit, I don't see it as a huge factor. She has a huge extended family all living in the metroplex, the kid is well taken care of and loved by everyone. She's a great mom but has her space in relationships from the kid.
http://www.melvinchu.com/images/girl2.jpg
Pic of girl 2 - that's a bad pic of her - in person she is the cutest person I've ever seen. 10/10 on a cuteness scale. None of you guys would kick her out of bed.
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